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Title: enough is enough.
Post by: Misty on June 08, 2013, 10:58:28 PM
 Warning........Bad language from the start

 angry041: angry041: angry041:

Where to start.
?....

Stressed to hell. Two solid weeks of busy stuff, dealing with absolute arsewipe fukwits who expect the world from you without wanting to pay for it.  noooo:

Whilst having a borderline breakdown I trapped a nerve in my back, then got a chest infection at the worst possible time to have a frickin cough, then half of the equipment broke at the busiest time so I dont have time to get it fixed, then when I really thought I was going to keel over my parents phoned with the most fuckin spiteful call. Its my Grandad's birthday at the end of the month and when I explained that I couldn't go I was told that I don't care about my family and have let them all down etc etc. May I say at this point that I care ridiculously about my family, also that they get an hour of free calls a month to Cyprus yet they never bloody call me. And when I call them it's only to be told what a dissapointment I am .

I came to Cyprus as a teenager, alone, and now have a successful business and they still think I am a beach bum.

Recent conversation with my father....
  me- "at least I am happy"
  dad - "its not about happiness, you are not getting any younger, you've had your fun now...its time to get a proper job"

Anyhoo, got stuck in traffic tonight on the way to wedding, pulled up and the tyre went pop. This is a rental car cos ours has blown head gasket, now also need to buy a new car. Security at the hotel screaming to move the car, bride and groom waiting for entertainment..........

Think I am going to lose my fucking mind. Threw up today for no reason then thought my heart was going to explode out of my body.

Like the thread says......enough is enough.

I want my hut on he beach.  sad24:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Steve on June 08, 2013, 11:06:16 PM
What to say?  Families can be utter shits sometime, dunno if this is true about yours but some still have that mindset their children are just there for them

It'll seem better sometime, certainly after a stiff drink.  Put a few on my VP tab
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: apc2010 on June 08, 2013, 11:07:40 PM
No comment.........
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Misty on June 08, 2013, 11:14:24 PM
What to say?  Families can be utter shits sometime, dunno if this is true about yours but some still have that mindset their children are just there for them

It'll seem better sometime, certainly after a stiff drink.  Put a few on my VP tab

Stiff drink in the making. They don't know how much they can hurt you sometimes. The worst thing is that I have a sister in UK who basically has told my parents to F-off. They accept this totally cos she is the ballsy one, but because I'm "the nice one" I can't say this. Am too fucking old you be living my life for them, but I think however old you are, parents still have a way of making you feel like a bad kid. They are experts in the "guilt trip".
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: boogs on June 08, 2013, 11:45:23 PM
Oh Miss T you poor gerl .... happy100

It never rains but it pours ..... It is always the same hon life goes along for a bit and everything is looking good and then there is always a big boot comes and kicks you in the arse... Never one at a time either it looks like you are having one of those times.. I can assure you this is from experience... When things happen one at a time you can cope but when you don't feel well and in pain the rest is just the icing on the cake...

Sounds like you have worked hard to build up your business and you must or should be very proud of that and rightly so..  Don't let anyone take that away from you.  So sad to hear your family don't appreciate the work you have put in and what you have achieved....  Please don't let that effect you... I know it is easy for me to sit here and write this but I promise I have been there so do understand... It was only after many years I had enough confidence in myself to think sod you much as I love you this is my life and I am proud of my achievements and I have spent to long trying to get approval, and you won't take that away from me.. 
You live your life for you...

Things with the car etc will fall into place Apey I am sure will sort that...

Sounds like a break would be good but you can't at the moment why don't you plan something you would like to do in a few months to give you something to look forward to and aim for....

You are making yourself ill hon by worrying you are young and have lots of good things in front of you.. Just having a shit time for now ... It won't last ...

My god I sound like a boring old fart... sorry you can tell me to piss off if you like won't take offence honest...

I'm here for you if I can help as I am sure are we all are ... xxx

Hut on the beach is for us owldies..... :thumbsup:
   
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Misty on June 09, 2013, 04:26:26 AM
 sad24: thank you.
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Just One More on June 09, 2013, 04:49:56 AM
Excellent words from Boogs (apart from her being an old fart bit). I have nothing to add but a big  happy100

Take care Miss T
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Barman on June 09, 2013, 05:18:49 AM
What booger said too!

Big hugs Misty - sorry I missed your message last night....  redface:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Nick on June 09, 2013, 06:59:25 AM
 happy100
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Miss Demeanour on June 09, 2013, 07:06:59 AM
Oh Miss T   happy100 ...I am working on my own complete complete rampage of a day.

Lets combine and have a Thelma and Louise version of Natural Born Killers....just for stress relief like  :thumbsup:

Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Barman on June 09, 2013, 07:10:59 AM
Oh Miss T   happy100 ...I am working on my own complete complete rampage of a day.

Lets combine and have a Thelma and Louise version of Natural Born Killers....just for stress relief like  :thumbsup:

 scared2:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: GROWLER on June 09, 2013, 07:27:05 AM
Excellent words from Boogs (apart from her being an old fart bit). I have nothing to add but a big  happy100

Take care Miss T

But she is though!  Thumbs:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Nick on June 09, 2013, 07:40:18 AM
There is summat familiar in this. Are yer parents Catholic?  rubschin:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: boogs on June 09, 2013, 09:42:46 AM
Excellent words from Boogs (apart from her being an old fart bit). I have nothing to add but a big  happy100

Take care Miss T

But she is though!  Thumbs:

XXXXX   cloud9:   :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Darwins Selection on June 10, 2013, 09:38:59 AM
Poor Misty,  happy100

If you were my little girl, I would be very proud of what you have achieved out there.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: GROWLER on June 10, 2013, 09:51:42 AM
Poor Misty,  happy100

If you were my little girl, I would be very proud of what you have achieved out there.  :thumbsup:

Initiative, enthusiasm and self help is actually such a rarity these days now, so in total agreement.

Presumably, Miss T''s parents would rather she was still at home, up the duff again  with already 5 screaming snotty dribbling sproglets, and sitting there with them all and every day watching the Jermey Kyle show (or appearing on it) whilst stuffing her face with crisps and pop.? Shrugs:

Give me strength, and give Miss T the strength and courage to tell them to fuck right of!!!!  cussing:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: apc2010 on June 10, 2013, 09:53:59 AM
Again no comment .... Angry9:  but thanks for the support ........ :thumbsup:

I have to keep tight lipped ......I may have to see them again oneday...
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Steve on June 10, 2013, 09:55:07 AM
Poor Misty,  happy100

If you were my little girl, I would be very proud of what you have achieved out there.  :thumbsup:

I think she deserves a medal for not having murdered Baldy or BM


yet



Oh and seconded ^
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: boogs on June 10, 2013, 10:14:43 AM
Poor Misty,  happy100

If you were my little girl, I would be very proud of what you have achieved out there.  :thumbsup:

I think she deserves a medal for not having murdered Baldy or BM


yet



Oh and seconded ^

 :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

How are you today sweetie .... cloud9:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Steve on June 10, 2013, 10:17:11 AM
Misty or moi?
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: GROWLER on June 10, 2013, 10:18:21 AM
Poor Misty,  happy100

If you were my little girl, I would be very proud of what you have achieved out there.  :thumbsup:

I think she deserves a medal for not having murdered Baldy or BM


yet



Oh and seconded ^

 :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

How are you today sweetie .... cloud9:

Fine,  lol: but see the Medical Center for updates on current physical status.  sad32:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: boogs on June 10, 2013, 10:24:01 AM
Poor Misty,  happy100

If you were my little girl, I would be very proud of what you have achieved out there.  :thumbsup:

I think she deserves a medal for not having murdered Baldy or BM


yet



Oh and seconded ^

 :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

How are you today sweetie .... cloud9:

Fine,  lol: but see the Medical Center for updates on current physical status.  sad32:

Not you owld grumpy .... actually I am not going to say that cause for once you seem in a good mood today... so ... cloud9:  ;)
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: GROWLER on June 10, 2013, 10:25:39 AM
No. I'm just putting on a brave face like. whistle:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: boogs on June 10, 2013, 10:27:27 AM
No. I'm just putting on a brave face like. whistle:

 happy100  Aww big Ugg....
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Misty on June 10, 2013, 11:00:44 AM
Thanks for your support. I am really moved by your comments.  cloud9:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: GROWLER on June 10, 2013, 11:12:12 AM
Again no comment .... Angry9:  but thanks for the support ........ :thumbsup:

I have to keep tight lipped ......I may have to see them again oneday...

I don't, so send 'em over for a famoius GROWLER ear bending sesh. Angry9:

How many of Miss T's age have done what she's done ey?
Gone out there on her OWN, and started up her own successful business? Shrugs:

They NEED to be told and 'ave a damned good sniff of the coffee, and a quick relity check wouldn't go amiss either evil:

If you were my daughter Miss T, I'd be well chuffed Thumbs:

She's a well grumpy cow too, so that's an added bonus! Thumbs:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Misty on June 10, 2013, 11:20:10 AM
Again no comment .... Angry9:  but thanks for the support ........ :thumbsup:

I have to keep tight lipped ......I may have to see them again oneday...

I don't, so send 'em over for a famoius GROWLER ear bending sesh. Angry9:

How many of Miss T's age have done what she's done ey?
Gone out there on her OWN, and started up her own successful business? Shrugs:

They NEED to be told and 'ave a damned good sniff of the coffee, and a quick relity check wouldn't go amiss either evil:

If you were my daughter Miss T, I'd be well chuffed Thumbs:

She's a well grumpy cow too, so that's an added bonus! Thumbs:

Cheers my ole furry pal. You've cheered me right up!  lol:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: GROWLER on June 10, 2013, 11:25:57 AM
Again no comment .... Angry9:  but thanks for the support ........ :thumbsup:

I have to keep tight lipped ......I may have to see them again oneday...

I don't, so send 'em over for a famoius GROWLER ear bending sesh. Angry9:

How many of Miss T's age have done what she's done ey?
Gone out there on her OWN, and started up her own successful business? Shrugs:

They NEED to be told and 'ave a damned good sniff of the coffee, and a quick relity check wouldn't go amiss either evil:

If you were my daughter Miss T, I'd be well chuffed Thumbs:

She's a well grumpy cow too, so that's an added bonus! Thumbs:

Cheers my ole furry pal. You've cheered me right up!  lol:

NOT fluffy! noooo:

Respect at last. cloud9:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Misty on June 10, 2013, 11:27:26 AM
Again no comment .... Angry9:  but thanks for the support ........ :thumbsup:

I have to keep tight lipped ......I may have to see them again oneday...

I don't, so send 'em over for a famoius GROWLER ear bending sesh. Angry9:

How many of Miss T's age have done what she's done ey?
Gone out there on her OWN, and started up her own successful business? Shrugs:

They NEED to be told and 'ave a damned good sniff of the coffee, and a quick relity check wouldn't go amiss either evil:

If you were my daughter Miss T, I'd be well chuffed Thumbs:

She's a well grumpy cow too, so that's an added bonus! Thumbs:

Cheers my ole furry pal. You've cheered me right up!  lol:

NOT fluffy! noooo:

Respect at last. cloud9:


But of course.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: boogs on June 10, 2013, 11:03:31 PM
Again no comment .... Angry9:  but thanks for the support ........ :thumbsup:

I have to keep tight lipped ......I may have to see them again oneday...

I don't, so send 'em over for a famoius GROWLER ear bending sesh. Angry9:

How many of Miss T's age have done what she's done ey?
Gone out there on her OWN, and started up her own successful business? Shrugs:

They NEED to be told and 'ave a damned good sniff of the coffee, and a quick relity check wouldn't go amiss either evil:

If you were my daughter Miss T, I'd be well chuffed Thumbs:

She's a well grumpy cow too, so that's an added bonus! Thumbs:

Well said that bear.. :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Baldy on June 10, 2013, 11:10:59 PM
Poor Misty,  happy100

If you were my little girl, I would be very proud of what you have achieved out there.  :thumbsup:

I think she deserves a medal for not having murdered Baldy or BM


yet



Oh and seconded ^

 cussing:

You wait until you meet the owld bag.  noooo:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Steve on June 10, 2013, 11:19:07 PM
IMHO the best way to deal with stroppy rellies is just never phone or visit them, they're usually too tight to phone themselves and if they do let the answer machine take the ear bashing. 

Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Barman on June 11, 2013, 04:42:27 AM
Poor Misty,  happy100

If you were my little girl, I would be very proud of what you have achieved out there.  :thumbsup:

I think she deserves a medal for not having murdered Baldy or BM


yet



Oh and seconded ^

 cussing:

You wait until you meet the owld bag.  noooo:


^^^ wot he said ^^^  evil:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Miss Creant Commander of the picklement and baking BAb(Hons) on June 11, 2013, 06:13:03 AM
Oh Miss T. happy100 happy100  Families eh don't you just hate 'em?
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: GROWLER on June 11, 2013, 08:25:29 AM
Oh Miss T. happy100 happy100  Families eh don't you just hate 'em?

Not just 'families' either.
Sheeple in general.

I need an 'ut, a remote one. cloud9:
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Barman on June 11, 2013, 09:09:16 AM
I've had this earworm since the start of this bleddy thread!  evil:

No more tears (Enough is Enough) - Donna Summer (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=djtKfE8ewko#)
Title: Re: enough is enough.
Post by: Steve on June 11, 2013, 09:12:04 AM
So have I now

But tis not a bad one