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Title: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: apc2010 on February 03, 2020, 12:39:13 PM
Well apart from the obvious with step mum ...last night bust pipe flooded house ... noooo: noooo:  when trying to stop/clean up water ...Miss T fell and broke 2/3 ribs ...... noooo: noooo:

so got broken Miss T and no water .... cussing:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Barman on February 03, 2020, 01:23:05 PM
Well apart from the obvious with step mum ...last night bust pipe flooded house ... noooo: noooo:  when trying to stop/clean up water ...Miss T fell and broke 2/3 ribs ...... noooo: noooo:

so got broken Miss T and no water .... cussing:

Oh noes! facepalm:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Steve on February 03, 2020, 02:01:12 PM
Well apart from the obvious with step mum ...last night bust pipe flooded house ... noooo: noooo:  when trying to stop/clean up water ...Miss T fell and broke 2/3 ribs ...... noooo: noooo:

so got broken Miss T and no water .... cussing:

Oh noes! facepalm:
noooo: noooo: noooo:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Nick on February 03, 2020, 03:51:13 PM
YOu go back to look after your stepmum and I will fly over to look after Misty's chest. I have oinkment  angel1
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Grumpmeister on February 03, 2020, 04:04:45 PM
YOu go back to look after your stepmum and I will fly over to look after Misty's chest. I have oinkment  angel1

Christus, Misty must have done something truly horrific in a past life to deserve such a fate.

Sorry to hear about everything Apey, hope things start looking up soon.
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Darwins Selection on February 03, 2020, 04:36:02 PM
 happy100
Annus Horribilis.  noooo:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Barman on February 03, 2020, 05:05:30 PM
happy100
Annus Horribilis.  noooo:

*snigger*  redface: redface: redface:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: apc2010 on February 03, 2020, 06:02:48 PM
Cheers for good wishes .. cloud9:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Tipsy Gipsy on February 03, 2020, 07:28:43 PM
Please accept these virtual bunch of flowers and grapes.... everything else is under discussion in Parliament.  Apparently, we can either have banks or fish.  ::)
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: apc2010 on February 03, 2020, 07:43:53 PM
Please accept these virtual bunch of flowers and grapes.... everything else is under discussion in Parliament.  Apparently, we can either have banks or fish.  ::)

 cloud9:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Just One More on February 03, 2020, 08:37:04 PM
Bloody hell Apey. Sorry you're having such a crap time. Get well soon Miss T
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Miss Demeanour on February 04, 2020, 01:59:29 PM
So is that all 3 shit things at once....cleared the way for the rest of the year  :thumbsup:

Poor Miss T - try not to make her laugh  ;)
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: apc2010 on February 06, 2020, 11:44:16 AM
Slightly more positive ....stepmum tumour removed seems to be all OK ..no furthur treatment ......... Thumbs:  will need 2 months home-care ..(maybe Miss T or myself ? )...


So (very small) beers on me ........ Thumbs: Thumbs: Thumbs: cloud9:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Steve on February 06, 2020, 11:45:33 AM
Slightly more positive ....stepmum tumour removed seems to be all OK ..no furthur treatment ......... Thumbs:  will need 2 months home-care ..(maybe Miss T or myself ? )...


So (very small) beers on me ........ Thumbs: Thumbs: Thumbs: cloud9:
Good news Apey, suggest you have the beers after all that.  Is Foggy getting better too?
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: apc2010 on February 06, 2020, 11:57:33 AM
Slightly more positive ....stepmum tumour removed seems to be all OK ..no furthur treatment ......... Thumbs:  will need 2 months home-care ..(maybe Miss T or myself ? )...


So (very small) beers on me ........ Thumbs: Thumbs: Thumbs: cloud9:
Good news Apey, suggest you have the beers after all that.  Is Foggy getting better too?

No Foggy still bad .... noooo: 


Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Steve on February 06, 2020, 12:01:25 PM
Slightly more positive ....stepmum tumour removed seems to be all OK ..no furthur treatment ......... Thumbs:  will need 2 months home-care ..(maybe Miss T or myself ? )...


So (very small) beers on me ........ Thumbs: Thumbs: Thumbs: cloud9:
Good news Apey, suggest you have the beers after all that.  Is Foggy getting better too?

No Foggy still bad .... noooo:
noooo: noooo:

Get well soon Foggy
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: apc2010 on February 06, 2020, 12:05:36 PM
Slightly more positive ....stepmum tumour removed seems to be all OK ..no furthur treatment ......... Thumbs:  will need 2 months home-care ..(maybe Miss T or myself ? )...


So (very small) beers on me ........ Thumbs: Thumbs: Thumbs: cloud9:
Good news Apey, suggest you have the beers after all that.  Is Foggy getting better too?

No Foggy still bad .... noooo:
noooo: noooo:

Get well soon Foggy

The plan was Foggy to go 1st for month-ish then me if needed ..(no offense to Foggy but I am face of business ) ...so now having a re-think .. rubschin:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Darwins Selection on February 06, 2020, 01:21:41 PM
Slightly more positive ....stepmum tumour removed seems to be all OK ..no furthur treatment ......... Thumbs:  will need 2 months home-care ..(maybe Miss T or myself ? )...


So (very small) beers on me ........ Thumbs: Thumbs: Thumbs: cloud9:
Sounds like better news at last.   :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Barman on February 06, 2020, 01:49:42 PM
Slightly more positive ....stepmum tumour removed seems to be all OK ..no furthur treatment ......... Thumbs:  will need 2 months home-care ..(maybe Miss T or myself ? )...


So (very small) beers on me ........ Thumbs: Thumbs: Thumbs: cloud9:

Wonderful news!  cloud9:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Nick on February 06, 2020, 02:17:41 PM
Good news :thumbsup: 

How is Foggy's chest?
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: apc2010 on February 06, 2020, 04:07:04 PM
Good news :thumbsup: 

How is Foggy's chest?

always good....... Thumbs:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Nick on February 06, 2020, 04:08:02 PM
I have oinkment  angel1
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Just One More on February 06, 2020, 05:25:02 PM
Great news on mum Apey. Get well soon Miss T
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: apc2010 on March 22, 2020, 07:46:08 PM
Well that was short lived optomism ...just phoned hospital ..told me to prepare for the worst ..a matter of days ... noooo: noooo: noooo:

Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Nick on March 22, 2020, 07:50:28 PM
We live in tough times, and yours are tougher  happy100 happy100 happy100
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: apc2010 on March 22, 2020, 07:51:15 PM
We live in tough times, and yours are tougher  happy100 happy100 happy100

 Thumbs:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Just One More on March 22, 2020, 08:09:08 PM
Well that was short lived optomism ...just phoned hospital ..told me to prepare for the worst ..a matter of days ... noooo: noooo: noooo:

There are no words. Caring thoughts to you and yours fella
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Miss Demeanour on March 22, 2020, 08:54:46 PM
Well that was short lived optomism ...just phoned hospital ..told me to prepare for the worst ..a matter of days ... noooo: noooo: noooo:

Jeeeeez ...what a complete mare !!!! So, sorry  hun.

Where is the hibernate button someone quick ? 
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: The Moan Ranger on March 22, 2020, 09:21:44 PM
So sorry  happy100
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Steve on March 22, 2020, 09:22:42 PM
Well that was short lived optomism ...just phoned hospital ..told me to prepare for the worst ..a matter of days ... noooo: noooo: noooo:

 noooo: oh shit Apey, life is putting you and your family through the wringer on this. 
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Barman on March 23, 2020, 06:21:18 AM
Well that was short lived optomism ...just phoned hospital ..told me to prepare for the worst ..a matter of days ... noooo: noooo: noooo:

Sorry mate... happy100
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: apc2010 on March 23, 2020, 12:44:31 PM
Well officially an orphan now ... sad24:

and a property owner in Cornwall....... noooo:


HUGE choices to make now ... noooo:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Barman on March 23, 2020, 12:48:57 PM
Well officially an orphan now ... sad24:

and a property owner in Cornwall....... noooo:


HUGE choices to make now ... noooo:

happy100  cry:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Steve on March 23, 2020, 01:59:17 PM
Well officially an orphan now ... sad24:

and a property owner in Cornwall....... noooo:


HUGE choices to make now ... noooo:

happy100  cry:
Sorry to hear that Apey
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Nick on March 23, 2020, 02:39:00 PM
So sorry to hear that Apey.

Things are bad all round. A mate of mine is confined to his house as his son is there with the virus. His 92 year old mother is over 100 miles away and is lying in bed covered in shit with no food as Social Services can't cope and her neighbours are all elderly and frail. She will surely die of neglect in the near future and there is nothing he can do.

Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Miss Demeanour on March 23, 2020, 03:21:02 PM
Sorry Apey  happy100

What a crock of sh1te  noooo: noooo: noooo:

Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Just One More on March 23, 2020, 10:16:34 PM
Sincere condolences Apey
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Grumpmeister on March 23, 2020, 11:35:15 PM
Sorry Apey, you have my condolences.
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Barman on March 24, 2020, 06:22:45 AM
I reckon it is time to turn 2020 off, wait five minutes and turn it on again...  noooo:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Darwins Selection on March 25, 2020, 11:57:04 AM
Sad news Apey. It is turning into a year to remember in all the wrong ways.
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Tipsy Gipsy on March 26, 2020, 08:20:08 PM
Sorry for your loss Apey.   
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Tipsy Gipsy on March 26, 2020, 08:24:46 PM
So sorry to hear that Apey.

Things are bad all round. A mate of mine is confined to his house as his son is there with the virus. His 92 year old mother is over 100 miles away and is lying in bed covered in shit with no food as Social Services can't cope and her neighbours are all elderly and frail. She will surely die of neglect in the near future and there is nothing he can do.



If you check out this ...

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/guidance-on-shielding-and-protecting-extremely-vulnerable-persons-from-covid-19    You can use the link to register the person who needs the help.   Also contact the local Salvation Army to the vulnerable person They may be able to offer support too.
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Nick on March 26, 2020, 08:30:45 PM
TA
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Tipsy Gipsy on March 26, 2020, 08:31:41 PM
TA

Don’t say Ta say thank you.  noooo:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Nick on March 26, 2020, 08:41:51 PM
 redface:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Tipsy Gipsy on March 26, 2020, 11:28:39 PM
 cloud9:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Darwins Selection on March 27, 2020, 08:49:29 AM
redface:
point:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: apc2010 on June 02, 2020, 02:46:38 PM
Well that is weird ..just recieved a birthday card from step-mum.... noooo:

 sad24:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Barman on June 02, 2020, 03:50:29 PM
Well that is weird ..just recieved a birthday card from step-mum.... noooo:

 sad24:

 cry:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: apc2010 on June 13, 2020, 09:23:52 PM
Now got a FUCKfest with the house ... noooo:  long rant to come soon.... noooo:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Nick on June 13, 2020, 09:30:34 PM
 happy100 Popcorn:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: apc2010 on June 13, 2020, 09:36:08 PM
happy100 Popcorn:

My step-mother's ..f88king go-gooder sister is excetor of will ....wants all debts cleared ..which can be/should/will be wiped out by
death ... cussing: cussing: cussing:

NONE are secured on house .. Banghead......... cussing: Angry9: Angry9:


If I hear ..."But it's the right thing to do " ..one more time ..... Angry9: Angry9: Angry9:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Steve on June 13, 2020, 10:41:44 PM
happy100 Popcorn:

My step-mother's ..f88king go-gooder sister is excetor of will ....wants all debts cleared ..which can be/should/will be wiped out by
death ...
noooo:   they're a liability of the estate, you need to do some googling
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: apc2010 on June 13, 2020, 10:51:48 PM
happy100 Popcorn:

My step-mother's ..f88king go-gooder sister is excetor of will ....wants all debts cleared ..which can be/should/will be wiped out by
death ...
noooo:   they're a liability of the estate, you need to do some googling

Had legal advice ..they do NOT need to paid by law (unsecured loans )..but coz she has "purse strings" ..basically I am Fucked ... noooo:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Miss Demeanour on June 14, 2020, 07:02:26 AM
Will they take a sizeable chunk off the remainder of the estate value?
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Nick on June 14, 2020, 07:06:57 AM
Best handled by a solicitor BUT ker-ching  noooo:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: apc2010 on June 14, 2020, 07:27:34 AM
Will they take a sizeable chunk off the remainder of the estate value?

20 ish .K.... rubschin: 
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Barman on June 14, 2020, 07:56:43 AM
Will they take a sizeable chunk off the remainder of the estate value?

20 ish .K.... rubschin:

 eeek:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Steve on June 14, 2020, 07:58:43 AM
happy100 Popcorn:

My step-mother's ..f88king go-gooder sister is excetor of will ....wants all debts cleared ..which can be/should/will be wiped out by
death ...
noooo:   they're a liability of the estate, you need to do some googling

Had legal advice ..they do NOT need to paid by law (unsecured loans )..but coz she has "purse strings" ..basically I am Fucked ... noooo:
Not the legal advice we got on 3 estates over the last few years and not what Citizen's advice are saying either.  We paid them (stuff like care home fees, electric bills)
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: apc2010 on June 14, 2020, 04:24:57 PM
happy100 Popcorn:

My step-mother's ..f88king go-gooder sister is excetor of will ....wants all debts cleared ..which can be/should/will be wiped out by
death ...
noooo:   they're a liability of the estate, you need to do some googling

Had legal advice ..they do NOT need to paid by law (unsecured loans )..but coz she has "purse strings" ..basically I am Fucked ... noooo:
Not the legal advice we got on 3 estates over the last few years and not what Citizen's advice are saying either.  We paid them (stuff like care home fees, electric bills)

These were/are credit cards ..both of theirs ..
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Nick on June 14, 2020, 04:44:42 PM
Let it go, debt collection agencies eventually say, "Make us an offer". Offer £10  whistle:
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: apc2010 on June 14, 2020, 04:48:01 PM
Let it go, debt collection agencies eventually say, "Make us an offer". Offer £10  whistle:

Step-mum has a plan like that ..something stupid like 5 quid a week between them..??  gonna offer to continue ... Thumbs:

Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: Steve on June 14, 2020, 05:38:22 PM
happy100 Popcorn:

My step-mother's ..f88king go-gooder sister is excetor of will ....wants all debts cleared ..which can be/should/will be wiped out by
death ...
noooo:   they're a liability of the estate, you need to do some googling

Had legal advice ..they do NOT need to paid by law (unsecured loans )..but coz she has "purse strings" ..basically I am Fucked ... noooo:
Not the legal advice we got on 3 estates over the last few years and not what Citizen's advice are saying either.  We paid them (stuff like care home fees, electric bills)

These were/are credit cards ..both of theirs ..
A fair while ago some credit card companies used to write off the debt on death but I believe they all they got wise to the obvious abuses
 
Most solicitors will advise an executor to put a death notice in the Gazette because that way if anyone owed money turns up after the estate has been distributed they can be told tough luck.  Otherwise the executor has to personally pay off the debt. 

I could give you heaps of links on this or you could Google but as long as there is money in the estate to pay any debts they have to be paid from the estate
Title: Re: Shit Start to Year !!
Post by: apc2010 on June 14, 2020, 05:39:47 PM
happy100 Popcorn:

My step-mother's ..f88king go-gooder sister is excetor of will ....wants all debts cleared ..which can be/should/will be wiped out by
death ...
noooo:   they're a liability of the estate, you need to do some googling

Had legal advice ..they do NOT need to paid by law (unsecured loans )..but coz she has "purse strings" ..basically I am Fucked ... noooo:
Not the legal advice we got on 3 estates over the last few years and not what Citizen's advice are saying either.  We paid them (stuff like care home fees, electric bills)

These were/are credit cards ..both of theirs ..
A fair while ago some credit card companies used to write off the debt on death but I believe they all they got wise to the obvious abuses
 
Most solicitors will advise an executor to put a death notice in the Gazette because that way if anyone owed money turns up after the estate has been distributed they can be told tough luck.  Otherwise the executor has to personally pay off the debt. 

I could give you heaps of links on this or you could Google but as long as there is money in the estate to pay any debts they have to be paid from the estate

Cheers..