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Come Inside... => The Snug => Topic started by: Bar Wench on February 11, 2009, 09:49:49 PM
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Is the gap between 30 and 45 too large?
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Maybe.
15 years is the gap between me and my ex.
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Who was the younger?
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My ex. Are you talking the other way round?
Do tell.
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Will tell all tomorrow. Need to go to bed now. Very very tired.
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cussing:
thats not right we need to know noooo:
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I'm 45. Are you 30?
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I'm 45. Are you 30?
Is that Metric or Imperial?
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That was going to be my first question, until I re-read the title about age gaps
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Wenchy has found a potential sugar daddy. Mr Wench kicked out noooo:
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It's tomorrow...... I don't do patience lol:
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It's tomorrow...... I don't do patience lol:
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She's deffo thinking of eloping. Prolly her boss. It usually is noooo:
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Not mine - he looks like the characters from 118 118 adverts noooo:
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Why would Wenchy run off with your boss? rubschin:
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Prolly her boss. It usually is noooo:
Just confirming that is not always the case Nick eeek:
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I must have got hold of the wrong end of the stick. You see, when you explained that your boss looked like a character in the 118 advert I assumed that you were meditating on the unlikeliness that Wenchy would contemplate.
Oh forget it
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It isn't me! ::)
Mr Wench's brother has been rather secretive about the new lady friend he has been seeing. It would seem with good cause! eeek:
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Of course, of course. You are merely concerned about Mr Wench's brother coming to a sticky end
snigger
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I take it Mr Wenchy - in law , is the younger one in this partnership then ?????
And he has gone for a woman in her forties you say.......
let me think...........
No absolutely nothing wrong with that at all lol: lol: lol:
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I like some women in their forties. Is she MILF class or has she got a gaggle of squalling brats and Kevinalikes/THWs?
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He is indeed.
I suppose it is a bit of a double standard. If it were the other way around I wouldn't have a problem with it all. I suppose my issue is if he is serious about this as a longterm relationship he may miss out on things like fatherhood because of her age.
As a fling-thing? You go girl! happ096
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I have always fancied younger women, I can't remember why though
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I like some women in their forties. Is she MILF class or has she got a gaggle of squalling brats and Kevinalikes/THWs?
Not a clue. All I know is her age, that she is welsh and that he met her at Spanish evening classes.
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I like some women in their forties. Is she MILF class or has she got a gaggle of squalling brats and Kevinalikes/THWs?
Do you have a preferred age range then Nick lol:
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she is welsh
Tell him to call it off NOW!
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she is welsh
Tell him to call it off NOW!
Seconded.
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He's welsh too so she probably seems quite normal to him! lol:
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He's welsh too so she probably seems quite normal to him! lol:
noooo:
It'll end in baaaahhhhs.... redface:
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In which case they are probably cousins noooo:
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I have some friends with that kind of age gap and it doesn't seem to be a problem, for now anyway. A relationship is a relationship whatever the ages involved, some work/last some don't.
At least with a woman in her forties you know what you are getting unlike someone in their twenties/thirties who is still maturing.
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Still look at it this way. In comparisson to her MILFH is going to think the sun shines out of arse! lol:
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Guy I was at university with married a 50 year old. He was 22!
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I have some friends with that kind of age gap and it doesn't seem to be a problem, for now anyway. A relationship is a relationship whatever the ages involved, some work/last some don't.
At least with a woman in her forties you know what you are getting unlike someone in their twenties/thirties who is still maturing.
I don't see it as a problem in compatability terms. I suppose really it is just the having children thing that concerns me.
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You could always offer to be a surrogate mother. Anyhoo, you are concerned about them breeding. How long have they been 'going out'?
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I have some friends with that kind of age gap and it doesn't seem to be a problem, for now anyway. A relationship is a relationship whatever the ages involved, some work/last some don't.
At least with a woman in her forties you know what you are getting unlike someone in their twenties/thirties who is still maturing.
I don't see it as a problem in compatability terms. I suppose really it is just the having children thing that concerns me.
Presumably, he will take this into account.
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I have some friends with that kind of age gap and it doesn't seem to be a problem, for now anyway. A relationship is a relationship whatever the ages involved, some work/last some don't.
At least with a woman in her forties you know what you are getting unlike someone in their twenties/thirties who is still maturing.
I don't see it as a problem in compatability terms. I suppose really it is just the having children thing that concerns me.
Presumably, he will take this into account.
I hope so. It's just that previously he hasn't really thought it through long term wise. I just worry about him. redface:
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But you can't stand him!
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No I like him! Apart from the whole enabling Mr Wench at football!
It's only MILFH I have issues with. redface:
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No I like him! Apart from the whole enabling Mr Wench at football!
It's only MILFH I have issues with. redface:
Perhaps the MILFH needs fixing up with somebody. eyes:
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I have long thought that!
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I have long thought that!
Nick?
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whacky007
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Neither of us had a problem with the age gap, my ex is intelligent and sensible, we just seemed on the same wavelength from when we first met. I would never have been attracted to some flighty airhead anyway.
Her family seemed fine with it as well. I always got on well with the her sister and parents, I was after all nearer the inlaw's age than my wife's.
Although it wasn't a major factor in our breakup it did have some bearing on when we wanted to have children.
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whacky007
The perfect FILFH. ;D
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I like some women in their forties. Is she MILF class or has she got a gaggle of squalling brats and Kevinalikes/THWs?
Do you have a preferred age range then Nick lol:
Old enough not to be able to run away when they realise he is Captain Calamity whistle:
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I have some friends with that kind of age gap and it doesn't seem to be a problem, for now anyway. A relationship is a relationship whatever the ages involved, some work/last some don't.
At least with a woman in her forties you know what you are getting unlike someone in their twenties/thirties who is still maturing.
I don't see it as a problem in compatability terms. I suppose really it is just the having children thing that concerns me.
She has either had children or now knows she is unlikely to.
Few men of my aquaintance actually want children ~ they accept them as an inevitable consequence.
Anywhoo ~ it really is none of your business.
My great grandmother was widowed. As soon as her children were had left home she knocked 11 years off her age and married a man 25 years her junior. Bet he got a shock on the wedding night lol:
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Wot he said (apart from the great grandmother bit, we aren't related)
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Oh I have no intention of saying anything to him!
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Oh I have no intention of saying anything to him!
doh: So what was the point then...? Shrugs:
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Wumman chatter noooo:
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Oh I have no intention of saying anything to him!
So, would you consider a man 15 years older?
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Oh I have no intention of saying anything to him!
doh: So what was the point then...? Shrugs:
I was interested in alternative perspectives.
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Oh I have no intention of saying anything to him!
So, would you consider a man 15 years older?
Well not now that I am happily living in sin no. However, it wasn't something I ever ruled out no. I used to go out with someone ten years older than myself so five years is only a hop skip and a jump from that. My Mum and Dad were 17 years apart.
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My mum and dad were born on the same day!
June 25th 1918
Mind you, the war and stuff got in the way, which may explain why I am the same age as my eldest nephew
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Oh I have no intention of saying anything to him!
So, would you consider a man 15 years older?
Well not now that I am happily living in sin no. However, it wasn't something I ever ruled out no. I used to go out with someone ten years older than myself so five years is only a hop skip and a jump from that. My Mum and Dad were 17 years apart.
I have a female friend who is fifteen years younger than her husband, he is 66.
Another female friend is 22 years younger than her husband, he is 60.
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Another female friend is 22 years younger than her husband, he is 60.
Lucky chap eyes:
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Oh I have no intention of saying anything to him!
So, would you consider a man 15 years older?
Well not now that I am happily living in sin no. However, it wasn't something I ever ruled out no. I used to go out with someone ten years older than myself so five years is only a hop skip and a jump from that. My Mum and Dad were 17 years apart.
I have a female friend who is fifteen years younger than her husband, he is 66.
Another female friend is 22 years younger than her husband, he is 60.
That is considered more normal though isn't it? It's a societal norm for the woman to be younger than the man but when it is the other way around it is considered rather peculiar.
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Another female friend is 22 years younger than her husband, he is 60.
Lucky chap eyes:
He certainly is, she's a real cracker.
He can't keep up with her at dancing though!
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We must move in different circles. NuLabour has not yet introduced rools about marital age gaps. I don't give a flying fook abuot age differences myself. Live and let live!
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Another female friend is 22 years younger than her husband, he is 60.
Lucky chap eyes:
He certainly is, she's a real cracker.
He can't keep up with her at dancing though!
Is his heart sound?
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Oh I have no intention of saying anything to him!
So, would you consider a man 15 years older?
Well not now that I am happily living in sin no. However, it wasn't something I ever ruled out no. I used to go out with someone ten years older than myself so five years is only a hop skip and a jump from that. My Mum and Dad were 17 years apart.
I have a female friend who is fifteen years younger than her husband, he is 66.
Another female friend is 22 years younger than her husband, he is 60.
That is considered more normal though isn't it? It's a societal norm for the woman to be younger than the man but when it is the other way around it is considered rather peculiar.
I don't know to be honest. A few years difference is the norm.
The first female I mentioned is someone I was involved with many moons ago and I was dubious about her marrying him (only happened 3 years ago) as most of their friends are the same age as him and this obviously makes a big difference to thier social life.
Also he is very insecure about the age difference and her leaving him for someone else - has has effectively banned from seeing me, even when Mrs Tel is present.
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http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/europe/7885580.stm (http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/europe/7885580.stm)
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http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/europe/7885580.stm (http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/europe/7885580.stm)
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"You'll be my Marilyn to my JFK,"
sick2:
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HE gets to shag her anyhoo Banghead Banghead Banghead
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http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/europe/7885580.stm (http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/europe/7885580.stm)
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Never mind Nick, I'm sure she would take one look at you and decide to ditch that rich, powerful head of state... whistle:
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Goody, I thought that too cloud9:
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Just stay away from ships after it happens, the French Secret Service have a hell of a track record.... scared2:
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"You'll be my Marilyn to my JFK,"
Both dead before their 40's then?
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"You'll be my Marilyn to my JFK,"
Both dead before their 40's then?
lol: lol: lol:
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BM is younger than LL. I wonder how he gets on rubschin:
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BM is younger than LL. I wonder how he gets on rubschin:
Think he is actually lagging behind her.
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On a lead eeek:
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eyes:
He is closer to her shoes that way!
Did I not mention this before you booked your flights? rubschin:
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noooo:
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Mrs S#2 is 12 years younger than me. Chances are I shall die first ~ 'bout the only difference we can find.
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http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/bristol/7887725.stm (http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/bristol/7887725.stm) whistle:
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Another female friend is 22 years younger than her husband, he is 60.
Lucky chap eyes:
And now......... whistle:
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Still 22 years younger
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Still 22 years younger
:thumbsup:
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Still 22 years younger
Is that dog years?