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Come Inside... => The Snug => Topic started by: Snoopy on October 18, 2010, 09:34:47 AM
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The THW has just spent her weekend with BF at his student flat (shared with several others). She was sooooo looking forward to it. We figured that at 17 and a half there was no way we could stop her and we did manage to prevent her from going with him permanently. Anywhooo when she got home last night she was complaining that she has caught a "Freshers week" cold and has done all his ironing as well as the ironing for two of his mates. All three have simply been buying new clothes as they don't know how to work the iron. happy001
According to her "They f'ing well know now!" angry041:
Sometimes being a parent can be so satisfying! eveilgrin:
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How the fook can you not know how to use an iron? rubschin:
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She has been played noooo: noooo: noooo:
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Mummies boys all ..... so she told me when I posed the same question.
She added that there is no way she is going to mother one of them through 3 years let alone all three!
It seems that one of them "melted" a tee shirt and none of them knew to put water into a steam iron nor what heat setting to use.
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All good rhetoric in which case she should have stood over them and advised them what to do ...but to complete the task on behalf of all 3 of them noooo: noooo: noooo:
I'm sure she will be welcome every weekend though lol:
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He is only allowed a girl overnight in halls once a month.
Anyway she can't afford the train fares more often than that.
I do feel a valuable lesson has been taken on board ~ particularly as her mother took the chance to observe that having had all that practice she can now do her own ironing at home. SWWLTBO and I do sometimes make a good team! whistle:
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He is only allowed a girl overnight in halls once a month.
Don't you love all those rules that are so openly flouted lol:
So much went on in our halls at the 1st year of Uni that the rules would have been aghast about lol: - best of all times though cloud9:
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Visitors have to be signed in and out ~ other students are not barred from sleeping with who or where they wish. Summat to do wiv Elf n Safety. They check apparently, security patrols stop people and ask to see student ID or so she says.
SWWLTBO tells me that they had a fire evacuation drill at 3am, when she was at Dundee, they found only 35 students in one hall (instead of the expected 90) and 240 in another that was designed for 100!
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Visitors have to be signed in and out ~ other students are not barred from sleeping with who or where they wish. Summat to do wiv Elf n Safety. They check apparently, security patrols stop people and ask to see student ID or so she says.
SWWLTBO tells me that they had a fire evacuation drill at 3am, when she was at Dundee, they found only 35 students in one hall (instead of the expected 90) and 240 in another that was designed for 100!
happy001 happy001 happy001
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lol: lol: lol:
Yeah ...we had security as well and a system of 'logging' visitors in and out ...bless him and his cotton socks whistle:
Visitors were meant to have left by 11pm - midnight at the weekends .
We of course complied at all times with this angel1
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I think the financial implications, the up coming A2s and her hatred of ironing will keep it down to monthly visits for now.
Also it seems that his Mummy likes to visit frequently and his parents do not want the THW anywhere near him ..... not since she told his father to keep his perverted paws to himself! The BF had to claim to be on a "Field Trip" this weekend to keep them away..... they have been to see him every weekend since he went there! Mummy phones him every evening, they have paid to have a BT line in his room!
In his shoes I would have told them "I'm 18 now so p*ss off" ..... but he thinks they will "come round" eventually so keeps telling porkies about the relationship. Had they left the kids alone when I told them to 2 years ago it would have all been over long ago but forbidden fruit is always sweeter! We had hoped that the kids had broken up during the summer but apparently they are an item again.
As for the father .... I had two choices ... Punch his lights out or do what I finally settled on which was to ask my friendly local Rozzerette to call on him and "Have a word" about his emailing and texting the THW. She did and he is a wiser and more careful man now. They live in the next village to us and their local bobby went with my friend to "bully him a bit". Coincidentally he has been stopped whilst driving 6 times since (Faulty brake light, badly adjusted headlights, bald tyre etc) and his car is now off the road whistle:
Rozzerette has a file with copies of his texts and emails to the THW for future reference ...... if it becomes necessary.
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eeek:
Does her BF know what his father has been doing ?
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Yup!
He also knows that he has a "half sister" following an affair between his father and a business partner ..... as does his wife!
The man cannot leave any woman alone. He has had his face slapped at conventions more times than you would think possible. The wife (his) walked out of one Uni Open Day they went to when he started chatting up one of the student volunteer guides.
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Tell THW "like father, like son"
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Tell THW "like father, like son"
Don't think I haven't!
And a lot more besides.
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It's not necessarily a logical conclusion though noooo:
It may make the son more determined never to be anything like his father , if he has suffered and seen his mother suffering years of this embarrassment and upset.
Does make me wonder what action he has taken though since he found out his dad had tried to hit on his girlfriend ?
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They fought apparently. Boy thumped his father ..... that was when the ban on ever seeing the THW was imposed but the lad still thinks he can handle the situation.
I've told him lies will do no good. He has to bring it into the open and sort it once and for all but he is not ready to cut all ties yet and says he doesn't want to not see his mother again. She meanwhile is sticking with the father "for now" or so she says.
Her parents live nearby and they barred the father from their house years ago ~ makes for a happy Christmas all round as father sits outside in the car whilst mother and son visit granny and granddad. Likewise her brother and family live 2 miles away and the father is not welcome there either since he hit on the "au-pair" (actually a 17 year old daughter of his BiL's Spanish business partner who was here for a year to improve her English). She went home after 3 months of pestering and innuendo from the BF's father.
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Sounds like a nightmare noooo:
At least THW is not basing her decision on where to go to Uni on the proximity to the BF
Hopefully time and distance will sort this out
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Sounds like a nightmare noooo:
At least THW is not basing her decision on where to go to Uni on the proximity to the BF
Hopefully time and distance will sort this out
His Uni is bottom of her list of 5 and then only because the course she wants is not offered everywhere.
Her original plan (last year) was to move with him when he went and finish her A levels there but fortunately good sense and a couple of teachers told her this was stoopid.
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Visitors have to be signed in and out ~ other students are not barred from sleeping with who or where they wish. Summat to do wiv Elf n Safety. They check apparently, security patrols stop people and ask to see student ID or so she says.
SWWLTBO tells me that they had a fire evacuation drill at 3am, when she was at Dundee, they found only 35 students in one hall (instead of the expected 90) and 240 in another that was designed for 100!
Latin = GANGUS BANGUS whistle:
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Nah you mean Sextus Maximus. whistle:
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Is this what they mean by the language of love ? rubschin:
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The language of lust ~ similar but wetter!