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Title: Blue Monday
Post by: Miss Demeanour on January 17, 2011, 07:38:07 AM
Apparently that is today like  rubschin: ( seems to be a lot of these 'most miserable days' in January claim to fame things ). This one is ordained so as it is the most common day people seek counselling. Honestly have they not heard about the VP  lol:

Blue as in miserable not as in anything else by the way   noooo:

The Telegraph suggests the following as ways to cheer you up

Give to charity -I do that through my taxes surely  rubschin:

Lovebomb your partner - Make your first text message or tweet of the day a slushy one. For this simple karmic act, known to  philosophers as “paying it forward”, you can expect a good vibe in return - not a chance  cry:

Sing - oh god, please no  noooo:

Get the teas in - physical warmth makes you warmer to others apparently  - I don't drink hot drinks  noooo:

Sit up straight - sumfink about posture having an effect on our moods and exercise , yadda, yadda , yadda

Eat yourself happy - WOO HOO - however they go on to saying this should be green veg and fish. Bastards  evil:

Go dancing -  noooo:

Go barefoot  - giving tired feet new sensations apparently  sick2:

Get flirty - sumfink about hormones but if you get little response surely that makes bluer Monday even more depressing  noooo:

Flowers -  Shrugs:

Listen to birds - not the female ones but the flying ones. The National Trust apparently has launched an online audio guide to Britain’s best-loved birds.  tunble:

Write a journal  - effectively that is what I do here  lol:


http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/wellbeing/8260284/How-to-get-through-Blue-Monday.html (http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/wellbeing/8260284/How-to-get-through-Blue-Monday.html)
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Snoopy on January 17, 2011, 08:27:51 AM
According the Daily Fail you need to do three things to lift your mood:

The top three techniques which work best to lift your mood on this most miserable of days are: helping someone in need, receiving a compliment out of the blue and listening to the sound of the sea, according to a survey commissioned by charity ActionAid.

The charity is hosting a 'Happy Bubble' in London's Finsbury Avenue Square today to help beat the blues.

Two giant, heated bubbles will be filled with space hoppers, and free massages and other fun items will be free for the public between 7am - 7pm.


Personally I would have thought reading the Daily Fail would be enough to depress anyone.

That said I woke feeling very down today. Have taken Valium but feel no better.
Utterly pissed off for no discernible reason. Heaven help anyone who annoys or upsets me today!  evil:
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Barman on January 17, 2011, 08:28:53 AM
 scared:
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Darwins Selection on January 17, 2011, 08:32:42 AM
That said I woke feeling very down today. Have taken Valium but feel no better.
Utterly pissed off for no discernible reason. Heaven help anyone who annoys or upsets me today!  evil:

You called?  ;D
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Barman on January 17, 2011, 08:35:45 AM
That said I woke feeling very down today. Have taken Valium but feel no better.
Utterly pissed off for no discernible reason. Heaven help anyone who annoys or upsets me today!  evil:

You called?  ;D

 ;D
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Snoopy on January 17, 2011, 08:38:41 AM
So far I have lined up the Dept of Work and Pensions who will receive a phone call asking why they sent me three letters, all of the same date, each contradicting the other, IJT Inks who will be getting a call to ask why they have failed to send an order they acknowledged two weeks ago, 2 people who have failed to pay invoiced charges for the use of the Village Hall for over 6 months and the County Council employee in charge of Highways who has failed to respond to previous letters of complaint.

If I feel like this then others will be sharing in it  eveilgrin:
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Miss Demeanour on January 17, 2011, 10:05:19 AM
Well I am getting to work on The Brats room  evil:

Totally cleared it this morning - totally feckin filthy. Ripping out the carpet, and starting painting some walls later.

I intend to work my frustrations off  evil: evil: evil:
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Miss Creant Commander of the picklement and baking BAb(Hons) on January 17, 2011, 10:27:08 AM
According the Daily Fail you need to do three things to lift your mood:

The top three techniques which work best to lift your mood on this most miserable of days are: helping someone in need, receiving a compliment out of the blue and listening to the sound of the sea, according to a survey commissioned by charity ActionAid.

The charity is hosting a 'Happy Bubble' in London's Finsbury Avenue Square today to help beat the blues.

Two giant, heated bubbles will be filled with space hoppers, and free massages and other fun items will be free for the public between 7am - 7pm.


Personally I would have thought reading the Daily Fail would be enough to depress anyone.

That said I woke feeling very down today. Have taken Valium but feel no better.
Utterly pissed off for no discernible reason. Heaven help anyone who annoys or upsets me today!  evil:

When living in Leicester listening to the sound of the sea instilled a sense of panic in me. eeek:
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Snoopy on January 17, 2011, 10:39:35 AM
According the Daily Fail you need to do three things to lift your mood:

The top three techniques which work best to lift your mood on this most miserable of days are: helping someone in need, receiving a compliment out of the blue and listening to the sound of the sea, according to a survey commissioned by charity ActionAid.

The charity is hosting a 'Happy Bubble' in London's Finsbury Avenue Square today to help beat the blues.

Two giant, heated bubbles will be filled with space hoppers, and free massages and other fun items will be free for the public between 7am - 7pm.


Personally I would have thought reading the Daily Fail would be enough to depress anyone.

That said I woke feeling very down today. Have taken Valium but feel no better.
Utterly pissed off for no discernible reason. Heaven help anyone who annoys or upsets me today!  evil:

When living in Leicester listening to the sound of the sea instilled a sense of panic in me. eeek:

As the gull flies I live less than a mile and a half from the Irish Sea. Wonderful views of it from the back rooms but since I am half way up a mountain I too would be concerned if I could hear it  eeek:
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Miss Creant Commander of the picklement and baking BAb(Hons) on January 17, 2011, 11:10:24 AM
 cussing: Banghead  I have just spent the best part of an hour trying to sort out/amend a re-direction service.  Royal Mail are a bunch of tossers.  I need to calm down. This is not so much of a blue Monday rather a red mist Monday.
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Snoopy on January 17, 2011, 11:24:28 AM
Write to the manager at the delivery office closest to the address that you DON'T want your mail to go to. Keep a copy and if the situation is not resolved to your satisfaction within 14 days write to Royal Mail, Tallents House, 21 South Gyle Crescent, Edinburgh EH12 9PB. enclosing a copy of your letter of complaint to the delivery office and any response received from them. It helps if you enclose a copy of your redirection request, stamped by the office that received it. If you requested it on line you need to let them have a copy of the confirmation notice.
Remember that the redirection service is not guaranteed (see Royal Mail T's&C's on line) and it does require you to give at least 5 working days notice of the redirection.

Yes ~ I do know that the Royal Mail is run by a bunch of muppets!
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Snoopy on January 17, 2011, 11:46:46 AM
Right ~ that's the Dept of Work and Pensions told!

Not a very satisfying conversation ~ call centre gerl agreed with me that they are even worse than the DVLA, that they don't know their arse from their elbow and that their service is appalling. I'm now even more annoyed because she completely took away my argument .... and I was soooo looking forward to it  confused:


IJT Inks, who in the past have given an excellent service, are so overwhelmed with calls this morning that they have a recording asking people to email them .... but only after telling you for 5 minutes how important your call is to them  cussing:
I have emailed eveilgrin:


None of the late payers are answering their 'phones  Banghead


The only thing Blue about this Monday is the air around here  censored:
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Darwins Selection on January 17, 2011, 11:51:17 AM
Right ~ that's the Dept of Work and Pensions told!

Not a very satisfying conversation ~ call centre gerl agreed with me that they are even worse than the DVLA, that they don't know their arse from their elbow and that their service is appalling. I'm now even more annoyed because she completely took away my argument .... and I was soooo looking forward to it  confused:


IJT Inks, who in the past have given an excellent service, are so overwhelmed with calls this morning that they have a recording asking people to email them .... but only after telling you for 5 minutes how important your call is to them  cussing:
I have emailed eveilgrin:


None of the late payers are answering their 'phones  Banghead


The only thing Blue about this Monday is the air around here  censored:

Steady progress, that's what I like to see.  ;)
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: tel on January 17, 2011, 12:50:15 PM
It took me nearly 4 hours to get to work this morning.

Rain and stupid drivers = complete standstill from N Cheam to New Malden, only about 3 to 4 miles, took 90 minutes.
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Miss Creant Commander of the picklement and baking BAb(Hons) on January 17, 2011, 01:05:43 PM
Right ~ that's the Dept of Work and Pensions told!

Not a very satisfying conversation ~ call centre gerl agreed with me that they are even worse than the DVLA, that they don't know their arse from their elbow and that their service is appalling. I'm now even more annoyed because she completely took away my argument .... and I was soooo looking forward to it  confused:


IJT Inks, who in the past have given an excellent service, are so overwhelmed with calls this morning that they have a recording asking people to email them .... but only after telling you for 5 minutes how important your call is to them  cussing:
I have emailed eveilgrin:


None of the late payers are answering their 'phones  Banghead


The only thing Blue about this Monday is the air around here  censored:


 happy100  I too have been trying to deal with the DWP. cussing:  Not much progress made.

 I then went onto the DVLA website to change my address.  Big big mistake. I made an even bigger mistake when I decided to phone them. I did not speak to anyone rather listened for twenty minutes to an automated welsh twat giving me a list of options, at the end of which automated welsh twat told me that this matter could not be dealt with over the phone and the line went dead. Explode:

I may shortly be mainly quaffing a large G and T.



Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Snoopy on January 17, 2011, 01:55:16 PM
No coincidence that both DVLA and Dept of Work and Pensions Unhelpful Desks are based in Wales. The lady I spoke to in Dept W&P was however in Yorkshire at their "Overspill Centre".  Tells you all you need to know really.

Meanwhile IJT Inks have emailed a fulsome apology and dispatched a replacement item by 1st Class post.

I shall continue to chase the reluctant debtors this evening.
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Snoopy on January 17, 2011, 02:24:01 PM
It took me nearly 4 hours to get to work this morning.

Rain and stupid drivers = complete standstill from N Cheam to New Malden, only about 3 to 4 miles, took 90 minutes.


Anything to do with this do you suppose?
http://tinyurl.com/6gj4w6d
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Tipsy Gipsy on January 24, 2011, 06:15:09 AM
And here we are in another one..... and have you seen the time?   noooo:   ::)
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Barman on January 24, 2011, 06:17:58 AM
And here we are in another one..... and have you seen the time?   noooo:   ::)

Have you seen my tea...?  ::)
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Darwins Selection on January 24, 2011, 09:25:34 AM
Is it today?

Strangely I find myself in good humour.

Out of step as usual.  surrender:
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: barmisspah? on January 24, 2011, 12:21:07 PM
Every Monday is Blue Monday to me.
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Just One More on January 24, 2011, 08:21:19 PM
Day one of a five day elfin safety course today, three days this week, two next week, it was mind-numbing  cry:
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Barman on January 24, 2011, 08:24:30 PM
Day one of a five day elfin safety course today, three days this week, two next week, it was mind-numbing  cry:

Dig the ole and remember to fill it in...? How can that take three days...? Shrugs:

Or was there some technical stuff too...?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eq5pzufCZuY
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: tel on January 24, 2011, 09:13:50 PM
I came home with the keys to the IT cabinet - I shall now have to traipse to Kingston tomorrow morning to hand them over.
Person with other set is not around tomorrow.

That's a day taken care of.
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Barman on January 25, 2011, 06:42:00 AM
I came home with the keys to the IT cabinet - I shall now have to traipse to Kingston tomorrow morning to hand them over.
Person with other set is not around tomorrow.

That's a day taken care of.

Blue Tuesday then...?  noooo:
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Darwins Selection on January 25, 2011, 08:51:31 AM
I came home with the keys to the IT cabinet - I shall now have to traipse to Kingston tomorrow morning to hand them over.
Person with other set is not around tomorrow.

That's a day taken care of.

Could have been worse.

Quote
Discovery up a mountain 
After filming was complete, Jeremy, who was in a rush to get somewhere else, jumped into the filming helicopter to be whisked away to catch a flight to London from the nearest airport. It was only when he was halfway there that he realised he'd still got the Discovery keys in his pocket. Cue a quick aerial U-turn and another hover over the mountain while a suitably embarrassed Clarkson dropped the keys down to the film crew. Fortunately the noise of the chopper drowned out what they were calling him.
 
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Barman on January 25, 2011, 09:01:46 AM
I came home with the keys to the IT cabinet - I shall now have to traipse to Kingston tomorrow morning to hand them over.
Person with other set is not around tomorrow.

That's a day taken care of.

Could have been worse.

Quote
Discovery up a mountain 
After filming was complete, Jeremy, who was in a rush to get somewhere else, jumped into the filming helicopter to be whisked away to catch a flight to London from the nearest airport. It was only when he was halfway there that he realised he'd still got the Discovery keys in his pocket. Cue a quick aerial U-turn and another hover over the mountain while a suitably embarrassed Clarkson dropped the keys down to the film crew. Fortunately the noise of the chopper drowned out what they were calling him.
 

 lol: lol: lol:
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Snoopy on January 25, 2011, 09:31:07 AM
According to a "Survey" reported in today's Telegraph 10am on a Tuesday is the low point of the working week.

So only 30 minutes to go then.  bom




PS Looking for a link could only find this one from the Daily Mail:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1350263/Feeling-stressed-morning-Research-finds-10am-Tuesday-stress-peak-week.html
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Barman on January 25, 2011, 09:34:05 AM
According to a "Survey" reported in today's Telegraph 10am on a Tuesday is the low point of the working week.

So only 30 minutes to go then.  bom




PS Looking for a link could only find this one from the Daily Mail:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1350263/Feeling-stressed-morning-Research-finds-10am-Tuesday-stress-peak-week.html

Zoomed past it here while cleaning the dustbin.... so it prolly was the low point akchoowly....  sick2:
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: tel on January 25, 2011, 10:21:08 AM
Left home this morning, got about half a mile when mobile rang - spare keys found, so back home for me.
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Barman on January 25, 2011, 10:28:08 AM
Left home this morning, got about half a mile when mobile rang - spare keys found, so back home for me.

 happ096

Result!
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: tel on January 25, 2011, 10:39:28 AM
Now trying to convince my elderly neighbour that she owes me for the 3 TV mags I have bought for her and not the other way round. Same for the apples and yoghurt.

She's really losing it.
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Barman on January 25, 2011, 10:42:08 AM
Now trying to convince my elderly neighbour that she owes me for the 3 TV mags I have bought for her and not the other way round. Same for the apples and yoghurt.

She's really losing it.

You need to show her who is boss tel!   eveilgrin:
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Miss Demeanour on January 25, 2011, 10:47:04 AM
Just like you do with LL  happy001 happy001 happy001
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Barman on January 25, 2011, 10:47:46 AM
Just like you do with LL  happy001 happy001 happy001

 evil:
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Darwins Selection on January 25, 2011, 10:56:29 AM
Now trying to convince my elderly neighbour that she owes me for the 3 TV mags I have bought for her and not the other way round. Same for the apples and yoghurt.

She's really losing it.

Does she have a computer?

She would fit in well here.
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Snoopy on January 25, 2011, 11:00:35 AM
Now trying to convince my elderly neighbour that she owes me for the 3 TV mags I have bought for her and not the other way round. Same for the apples and yoghurt.

She's really losing it.

Does she have a computer?

She would fit in well here.

Many a true word is spoken in jest  confused:
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: tel on January 25, 2011, 11:06:21 AM
I sometimes get 5 or 6 calls a day to see if I'm going to Sainsburys and her list of things to buy gets repeated over and over again.
Then when I take the stuff around to her, she has the TV on so loud she can't hear the doorbell.
So I end up standing at her front door calling her from my mobile, to answer the door.

Good job I have some patience - Mrs Tel and other neighbours don't really want to deal with her anymore and she is getting so awkward and morbid.
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Barman on January 25, 2011, 11:10:11 AM
I sometimes get 5 or 6 calls a day to see if I'm going to Sainsburys and her list of things to buy gets repeated over and over again.
Then when I take the stuff around to her, she has the TV on so loud she can't hear the doorbell.
So I end up standing at her front door calling her from my mobile, to answer the door.

Good job I have some patience - Mrs Tel and other neighbours don't really want to deal with her anymore and she is getting so awkward and morbid.

Are you mentioned in the will...?  whistle:
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Darwins Selection on January 25, 2011, 11:18:07 AM
I sometimes get 5 or 6 calls a day to see if I'm going to Sainsburys and her list of things to buy gets repeated over and over again.
Then when I take the stuff around to her, she has the TV on so loud she can't hear the doorbell.
So I end up standing at her front door calling her from my mobile, to answer the door.

Good job I have some patience - Mrs Tel and other neighbours don't really want to deal with her anymore and she is getting so awkward and morbid.

Are you mentioned in the will...?  whistle:

Probably:
"I instruct the executors to pursue Mr. Tel next door about payment for 300 copies of TV Times"
and
" To that nice Mrs Tel next door, and all the neighbours who didn't keep coming round to annoy me, £10,000 for a really good party"

 whistle:
Title: Re: Blue Monday
Post by: Barman on January 25, 2011, 11:36:40 AM
I sometimes get 5 or 6 calls a day to see if I'm going to Sainsburys and her list of things to buy gets repeated over and over again.
Then when I take the stuff around to her, she has the TV on so loud she can't hear the doorbell.
So I end up standing at her front door calling her from my mobile, to answer the door.

Good job I have some patience - Mrs Tel and other neighbours don't really want to deal with her anymore and she is getting so awkward and morbid.

Are you mentioned in the will...?  whistle:

Probably:
"I instruct the executors to pursue Mr. Tel next door about payment for 300 copies of TV Times"
and
" To that nice Mrs Tel next door, and all the neighbours who didn't keep coming round to annoy me, £10,000 for a really good party"

 whistle:

 lol: lol: lol: