Sometimes Growler one cannot do right for doing wrong.
Mrs S#1 was a bit like your personal Owld Trout. I'm afraid divorce was the only answer.
I reached the point where all I could think of to say was "If you don't like me or the things I choose to do then I suggest you find someone else more to your taste" ..... She did ~ eventually ~ and I have never been happier.
Some things you just cannot mend or make better use of ..... That's when you have to get rid of them.