Right. Now, both SWWLTTSMBO and my good self have accounts on Faceache.
We realised today that, for some reason, we weren't seeing each others status updates.
We have now fixed it. The bizarre thing is, that in order to sort it, we had to both set permissions to "friends of friends"
So, in Faceache's view spouses are not friends, but, friends of friends!
Cynical or what?