There has been a bit of an argument here this weekend with The Man's youngest son ( soon to be 19 ) who has asked if his girlfriend could stay over on Friday night.
Tis complicated by the fact that she is in foster care ( she is 17 ) and so we simply asked if she had permission to do so from from her foster parents / social worker.
Bring on the strops and the storming off and the lad saying they would instead stay over at his mum's ( the ex bitch from hell ) . She of course will do anything to accommodate and undermine - even though the girl has stayed there the past 3 weekends and the police have been called as her foster parents were unhappy she was staying out.
It is obvious this girl is looking for a way out of her current situation and has already stated she will be getting her own place as soon as she is 18 and Social Services will have to pay for this and her living costs etc .
The man and I are adamant that in the meantime she will not be using our place as a stop gap. She is here most days as is and doesn't' leave until almost 11 at night anyway !!!
She is not unpleasant but doesn't stop yapping, struts about the place as if it's her own and totally dominates The Man's son.
This is his 1st girlfriend.
But how come kids these days think they have a right to have their girlfriend / boyfriend to stay ??
How times have changed
