I received a message this morning from someone who I have not heard from in years and years and years.
" I saw a woman on the train this morning who sooooo reminded me of you that I almost got horny. (Almost, cos I am old now lol ! ) Missing you !. Just cos we havent't spoken in far too long doesn't mean I don't think about you. When are you free for lunch ?"
So my first impression is that this person has recently become single again and is revisiting all past acquaintainces
Not one mention of " how are you " or " what is your situation" just presumptions or checking that my mobile number is the same . Haven't changed this number in nearly 20 years
I responded and said I don't really do the ghosts of Christmas past but it's good that he still has his memory capability