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Offline Barman

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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #120 on: February 11, 2013, 03:27:39 PM »
Quote from: Miss Demeanour on February 11, 2013, 03:24:24 PM
Right ....how much does it cost ?

How much manure does it take ?

How much cement and sand ?

I last spoke to the man on his way from footy last night all was good .

Didn't get my normal morning message this morning but thought nothing of it.  My boss was trying to organise a meeting with him this morning. She then turned to me and said is he alright as he says there are problems at home this morning ?  rubschin:

We were meant to be meeting for lunch and he had a prior meeting in the building. Turns up at my desk and his face looks like its been mauled by a Bengal Tiger  eeek: eeek: eeek:

Apparently she had got hold of his phone ...seen a few texts he had sent and went for him. Threw a glass and scratched him to feck. It took both boys to drag her off and then matey called her bloke and told him either he picks her up or the police will  eeek:

I was a little shocked.

Then burst into tears

And am now furious  evil:

It is only Monday

I'm so sorry.... happy100

On a practical note though, does she now have your phone number and address too...?
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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #121 on: February 11, 2013, 03:28:52 PM »
Jesus honey! eeek: Get the voddy out of your handbag while we consider your next move.
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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #122 on: February 11, 2013, 03:30:10 PM »
How did she get the phone......... rubschin:
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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #123 on: February 11, 2013, 03:30:28 PM »
Not address and not sure she had time to write a phone number down before flying off her handle ....but she's welcome to ring me . I'm sure I can think of one or two things to say  evil:
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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #124 on: February 11, 2013, 03:30:56 PM »
Quote from: apc2010 on February 11, 2013, 03:30:10 PM
How did she get the phone......... rubschin:

Left on table .

She had come round early to take the youngest for a dental check up first thing  noooo:
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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #125 on: February 11, 2013, 03:32:47 PM »
Quote from: Miss Demeanour on February 11, 2013, 03:30:56 PM
Quote from: apc2010 on February 11, 2013, 03:30:10 PM
How did she get the phone......... rubschin:

Left on table

Given the ongoing situation, he is a complete fucking mong.... ::)

Sorry...  noooo:
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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #126 on: February 11, 2013, 03:33:47 PM »
There is nothing on the phone she is not aware of .

It is not a shock for her but an excuse
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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #127 on: February 11, 2013, 03:35:12 PM »
Quote from: Barman on February 11, 2013, 03:32:47 PM
Quote from: Miss Demeanour on February 11, 2013, 03:30:56 PM
Quote from: apc2010 on February 11, 2013, 03:30:10 PM
How did she get the phone......... rubschin:

Left on table

Given the ongoing situation, he is a complete fucking mong.... ::)

Sorry...  noooo:

Or put a key lock on it.......
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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #128 on: February 11, 2013, 03:37:22 PM »
Post her number on here .......between us night owls/shift workers and early birds .......I am sure we can manage hourly calls ............ eveilgrin:
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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #129 on: February 11, 2013, 03:40:44 PM »
Quote from: apc2010 on February 11, 2013, 03:37:22 PM
Post her number on here .......between us night owls/shift workers and early birds .......I am sure we can manage hourly calls ............ eveilgrin:

[serious] This is  woman that you do not want to wind up. Miss D's new man needs to take this to the police. Miss D needs to take special care because the same thing could happen to her should this (obviously deranged) woman ever discover her address. As it is, she knows where Miss D works which is a worry in itself. [/serious]
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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #130 on: February 11, 2013, 03:46:04 PM »
Calm down everybody. Horrible as it is, this now presents a proper opportunity for legal intervention if he can stomach it.

He needs to report the assault, even if he subsequently chooses not to press charges.
Having it on record may be a powerful asset further down the road.

I am sorry to hear it is getting so out of hand and hurtful to you both, but it is just a blip on the way to your objective.

Be strong and make sure it goes on record...

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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #131 on: February 11, 2013, 03:51:13 PM »
wot he said. At the very least I really think she should be reported so the police are aware of the situation. I know we have all been joking about it, but it just got serious. She is obviously unstable and we worry about you.
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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #132 on: February 11, 2013, 03:57:52 PM »
I'm more worried about him tbh and agree he should report this.

I think he should change the locks and then go to a solicitor to start the ball rolling on agreeing a settlement re the house . If she wants to see the boys she can do it outside the home environment but to be homest I'm not sure they would want to see her too much.

Of course if her current bloke is now wondering what the hell is going on that she is acting so dememented that may have repercussions for their relationship and matey boy is hoping this will make her think twice in future.

I have no such confidence.

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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #133 on: February 11, 2013, 04:00:07 PM »
Quote from: Miss Demeanour on February 11, 2013, 03:57:52 PM
I'm more worried about him tbh and agree he should report this.

I think he should change the locks and then go to a solicitor to start the ball rolling on agreeing a settlement re the house . If she wants to see the boys she can do it outside the home environment but to be homest I'm not sure they would want to see her too much.

Of course if her current bloke is now wondering what the hell is going on that she is acting so dememented that may have repercussions for their relationship and matey boy is hoping this will make her think twice in future.

I have no such confidence.

But surely she owns half of the house...?

Changing the locks of her own house is prolly illegal...

Assault is definitely illegal though and should be reported...
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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #134 on: February 11, 2013, 04:27:47 PM »
I'm just gobsmacked. In fact my gob has rarely been so utterly smacked  Shocked: Shocked:

 happy100 MissD

DS, as ever, is making hectares of common sense and the legal eagles may need to be brought in.

I was only ever once in a slightly comparable but nasty situation with a girlfriend's ex playing Heave-ho Havoc... I thought it was about time to bring in the police ... until I discovered that he was an ex copper  eeek: eeek:
Fortunately things quietened down of their own accord.
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