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Offline Miss Demeanour

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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #180 on: March 07, 2013, 09:41:26 PM »
Oh there has just been so much  noooo:
But she has thrown a complete strop tonight because she is saying that he shouldn't go out on Saturday with me to this party and has turned round to her children and said that due to the actions of their dad she will not be seeing them again.  Then walked out.  The youngest is in floods of tears. 

He doesn't appreciate this is just attention seeking drama queen flouncing. What a cruel and fecking wicked woman !
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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #181 on: March 07, 2013, 09:47:29 PM »
Oh there has just been so much  noooo:
But she has thrown a complete strop tonight because she is saying that he shouldn't go out on Saturday with me to this party and has turned round to her children and said that due to the actions of their dad she will not be seeing them again.  Then walked out.  The youngest is in floods of tears. 

He doesn't appreciate this is just attention seeking drama queen flouncing. What a cruel and fecking wicked woman !

But what did you expect...? Shrugs:

Right time to get stuff off my chest !!!!
New man is totally lovely and ‘we’ are really good together.

The fly in the ointment is his ex, they were not married though. She left him about 5 years to go off with his best mate. She now lives with said ex best mate.

They have a joint mortgage but she has not paid anything for the last 5 years. He has remained at the house with their 2 sons (20 & 15). She turns up at the house anytime she wants which is often quite a few days a week (under the guise of seeing the boys).

New man informed her sometime ago that he was in a new relationship. Since then all hell has broken loosecussing:

She has asked to get back together (whilst still going on holiday with her other blokey  of course ) . When he has refused she has gone totally ballistic. She has tried to turn their sons against him but both of the boys fully support him having this relationship.

Yesterday she has declared she is moving back in and will be making his life hell and obviously the lives of her children who do not want her to move back in .

The wumman is feckin unbelievable ....I am hoping that she is just having a massive tantrum cos I can’t possibly see her leaving her current bloke to go and stay where she is not wanted , potentially at the risk of losing current bloke  and the ex bloke not wanting anything to do with you  - but I wouldn’t put it past her. Banghead
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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #182 on: March 07, 2013, 09:47:57 PM »
What happened with his legal stuff,,,,,,,,,,,,,or did he not do it...... rubschin:

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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #183 on: March 07, 2013, 09:50:08 PM »
What happened with his legal stuff,,,,,,,,,,,,,or did he not do it...... rubschin:

I think we know the answer.  noooo:
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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #184 on: March 07, 2013, 09:50:47 PM »
What happened with his legal stuff,,,,,,,,,,,,,or did he not do it...... rubschin:

I think we know the answer.  noooo:

Ezackly....  noooo:
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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #185 on: March 07, 2013, 10:00:23 PM »
No , thats in progress.
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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #186 on: March 07, 2013, 10:01:27 PM »
Miss D, obviously we are all here to support you but this has gone on long enough. He has got to make a stand. He shouldn't even give her the opportunity to dictate whether he can go to a bloody party or not. She is not his mother she is not his wife she is a raving fucking lunatic who will lose in the end as her kids wont want anything to do with her.
  She has nothing to do with your relationship with Mr X and he should grow a pair and tell her so. This man makes you happy and the psycho bitch should play no part in what you have. Tell him to fix it or he will have the tyranny of the VP on his ass.



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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #187 on: March 07, 2013, 10:02:28 PM »
No , thats in progress.

Least he is going forward.......... whistle:

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Re: The tyranny of the ex
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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #189 on: March 07, 2013, 10:10:16 PM »
Miss D, obviously we are all here to support you but this has gone on long enough. He has got to make a stand. He shouldn't even give her the opportunity to dictate whether he can go to a bloody party or not. She is not his mother she is not his wife she is a raving fucking lunatic who will lose in the end as her kids wont want anything to do with her.
  She has nothing to do with your relationship with Mr X and he should grow a pair and tell her so. This man makes you happy and the psycho bitch should play no part in what you have. Tell him to fix it or he will have the tyranny of the VP on his ass.



This is his official warning.  eveilgrin:

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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #190 on: March 07, 2013, 10:22:11 PM »
^^^Wot they said.^^^ Huge hugs Miss D. happy100 happy100






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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #191 on: March 07, 2013, 10:31:18 PM »
Has anybody seen my "Best of Leonard Cohen" CD?



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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #192 on: March 07, 2013, 11:03:59 PM »
Bin him Miss D...I'm still here for you babe...

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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #193 on: March 08, 2013, 06:35:13 AM »
Has anybody seen my "Best of Leonard Cohen" CD?



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The world's shortest CD...?
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Re: The tyranny of the ex
« Reply #194 on: March 08, 2013, 12:16:38 PM »
Has anybody seen my "Best of Leonard Cohen" CD?



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The world's shortest CD...?
evil: evil: evil: effin brilliant is Mr C esp live.  But we digress

Oh there has just been so much  noooo: . . .

I have no expert insights Miss D but much sympathies.    Seems you and he are dealing with an attention seeking manipulative in denial nutjob.  Sadly it's not (yet) illegal to be one.
Well, whatever, nevermind