Many a true word
Will need to go and get a a tattoo and a velour tracksuit first
Though I think I do her an injustice ...just when you think she has tried it all she creates some new problem.
Weekends are normally particulalry bad.
Last weekend ( not the one just gone - as that was only yesterday .....for Growler clarification purposes) The man and I spent the Saturday together. Now she knows the Brat is at work on a Saturday so had made the assumption that we would be shagging all day. If only - the poor bloke got dragged round tile shops
Anyways she was supposed to have left by the time he got home ...she hadn't
. He is trying not to engage with any of her tactics which essentially means not really talking to her much. So when she began questioning him about what he'd done during the day and he told her it was none of his business she went absolutely ballistic.
To the point where she lost it and was going round the house screaming obscenties about apparently what he'd been doing all day. He told her to leave
She rang her bloke crying and asking for him to comne and pick her up. He asked why she was upset and she explained it was cos the man had been out all day shagging and he hadn't been sensitive to her feelings when he had got back . Her bloke then refused to come and collect her
. It was up to the eldest boy to speak to the boyfriend and ask him to come and collect his mum. Eventually she left.
All last week she has been playing the victim. Then getting upset. Styating that she wants to maintain a friendship and she wants him to be able to 'confide' with her and vice versa
He has said he won't , he will speak to me and not her if there is anything to discuss and she should speak to her partner not him.
I am apprently a whore. Looking for a father figure for the Brat , after their house, his money etc etc etc.
She has said I am not allowed to meet the boys or visit the house.
Now she has also said she wants to remortgage the house and take £50k out of it so she can do a loft conversion of the place she is living in with her bloke . Her name is not on the mortgage there and she wants to invest in it as neither her nor her bloke have any pension provision so they do this and then downsize in future.
The man wants her to go with him to go through the legal stuff. She refuses. She just wants him to do this and then he continues to pay the mortgage but her bloke might pay the difference. Sounds like a safe plan eh
Then this weekend ( that is the one just gone) she has now accused the man of neglecting the youngest as his priorities have changed. She again was meant to be there on Saturday and just didn't turn up he would not be there but choose instead to go yesterday when she knew he would be at home. She told the boys she has had to suppress her feelings for the last 5 years as she wants to be back there with them
The youngest is a little sensitive and so was quite upset yesterday. Neither of the boys want her to come back and the youngest is particulalrly anxious that when they are both there the arguments can be quite bitter and nasty. The man spent last night with him , talking to him and explaining clearly what will and will not happen. But he is angry with her for twisting and turning on her own kids.
Words for my feelings towards this woman fail me
