Disgusterous

Author Topic: enough is enough.  (Read 2168 times)

0 Members and 3 Guests are viewing this topic.

Offline miss Tchevious

  • Senior Moment
  • ****
  • Posts: 8557
  • Reputation: 3
enough is enough.
« on: June 08, 2013, 10:58:28 PM »
 Warning........Bad language from the start

 angry041: angry041: angry041:

Where to start.
?....

Stressed to hell. Two solid weeks of busy stuff, dealing with absolute arsewipe fukwits who expect the world from you without wanting to pay for it.  noooo:

Whilst having a borderline breakdown I trapped a nerve in my back, then got a chest infection at the worst possible time to have a frickin cough, then half of the equipment broke at the busiest time so I dont have time to get it fixed, then when I really thought I was going to keel over my parents phoned with the most fuckin spiteful call. Its my Grandad's birthday at the end of the month and when I explained that I couldn't go I was told that I don't care about my family and have let them all down etc etc. May I say at this point that I care ridiculously about my family, also that they get an hour of free calls a month to Cyprus yet they never bloody call me. And when I call them it's only to be told what a dissapointment I am .

I came to Cyprus as a teenager, alone, and now have a successful business and they still think I am a beach bum.

Recent conversation with my father....
  me- "at least I am happy"
  dad - "its not about happiness, you are not getting any younger, you've had your fun now...its time to get a proper job"

Anyhoo, got stuck in traffic tonight on the way to wedding, pulled up and the tyre went pop. This is a rental car cos ours has blown head gasket, now also need to buy a new car. Security at the hotel screaming to move the car, bride and groom waiting for entertainment..........

Think I am going to lose my fucking mind. Threw up today for no reason then thought my heart was going to explode out of my body.

Like the thread says......enough is enough.

I want my hut on he beach.  sad24:

Online Steve

  • Power Poster
  • *****
  • Posts: 64284
  • Reputation: -4
Re: enough is enough.
« Reply #1 on: June 08, 2013, 11:06:16 PM »
What to say?  Families can be utter shits sometime, dunno if this is true about yours but some still have that mindset their children are just there for them

It'll seem better sometime, certainly after a stiff drink.  Put a few on my VP tab
Well, whatever, nevermind

Offline apc2010

  • Power Poster
  • *****
  • Posts: 66257
  • Reputation: -2
Re: enough is enough.
« Reply #2 on: June 08, 2013, 11:07:40 PM »
No comment.........

Offline miss Tchevious

  • Senior Moment
  • ****
  • Posts: 8557
  • Reputation: 3
Re: enough is enough.
« Reply #3 on: June 08, 2013, 11:14:24 PM »
What to say?  Families can be utter shits sometime, dunno if this is true about yours but some still have that mindset their children are just there for them

It'll seem better sometime, certainly after a stiff drink.  Put a few on my VP tab

Stiff drink in the making. They don't know how much they can hurt you sometimes. The worst thing is that I have a sister in UK who basically has told my parents to F-off. They accept this totally cos she is the ballsy one, but because I'm "the nice one" I can't say this. Am too fucking old you be living my life for them, but I think however old you are, parents still have a way of making you feel like a bad kid. They are experts in the "guilt trip".

Offline boogs

  • Power Poster
  • *****
  • Posts: 11836
  • Reputation: 3
Re: enough is enough.
« Reply #4 on: June 08, 2013, 11:45:23 PM »
Oh Miss T you poor gerl .... happy100

It never rains but it pours ..... It is always the same hon life goes along for a bit and everything is looking good and then there is always a big boot comes and kicks you in the arse... Never one at a time either it looks like you are having one of those times.. I can assure you this is from experience... When things happen one at a time you can cope but when you don't feel well and in pain the rest is just the icing on the cake...

Sounds like you have worked hard to build up your business and you must or should be very proud of that and rightly so..  Don't let anyone take that away from you.  So sad to hear your family don't appreciate the work you have put in and what you have achieved....  Please don't let that effect you... I know it is easy for me to sit here and write this but I promise I have been there so do understand... It was only after many years I had enough confidence in myself to think sod you much as I love you this is my life and I am proud of my achievements and I have spent to long trying to get approval, and you won't take that away from me.. 
You live your life for you...

Things with the car etc will fall into place Apey I am sure will sort that...

Sounds like a break would be good but you can't at the moment why don't you plan something you would like to do in a few months to give you something to look forward to and aim for....

You are making yourself ill hon by worrying you are young and have lots of good things in front of you.. Just having a shit time for now ... It won't last ...

My god I sound like a boring old fart... sorry you can tell me to piss off if you like won't take offence honest...

I'm here for you if I can help as I am sure are we all are ... xxx

Hut on the beach is for us owldies..... :thumbsup:
   
You only get one chance at this life so make the most of it .

Offline miss Tchevious

  • Senior Moment
  • ****
  • Posts: 8557
  • Reputation: 3
Re: enough is enough.
« Reply #5 on: June 09, 2013, 04:26:26 AM »
 sad24: thank you.

Offline Just One More

  • Power Poster
  • *****
  • Posts: 26767
  • Reputation: 0
Re: enough is enough.
« Reply #6 on: June 09, 2013, 04:49:56 AM »
Excellent words from Boogs (apart from her being an old fart bit). I have nothing to add but a big  happy100

Take care Miss T
LiFe - It's an "F" in lie

Online Barman

  • Administrator
  • Needs to get out more...
  • *****
  • Posts: 154305
  • Reputation: -50
  • Since 1960...
    • Virtual Pub!
Re: enough is enough.
« Reply #7 on: June 09, 2013, 05:18:49 AM »
What booger said too!

Big hugs Misty - sorry I missed your message last night....  redface:
Pro Skub  Thumbs:

Offline Nick

  • Needs to get out more...
  • ******
  • Posts: 109359
  • Reputation: -115
Re: enough is enough.
« Reply #8 on: June 09, 2013, 06:59:25 AM »
 happy100
Warning: May contain Skub
Cat sitter extraordinaire
Semi-professional crocodile

Offline Miss Demeanour

  • Power Poster
  • *****
  • Posts: 36015
  • Reputation: 2
Re: enough is enough.
« Reply #9 on: June 09, 2013, 07:06:59 AM »
Oh Miss T   happy100 ...I am working on my own complete complete rampage of a day.

Lets combine and have a Thelma and Louise version of Natural Born Killers....just for stress relief like  :thumbsup:

Skubber

Online Barman

  • Administrator
  • Needs to get out more...
  • *****
  • Posts: 154305
  • Reputation: -50
  • Since 1960...
    • Virtual Pub!
Re: enough is enough.
« Reply #10 on: June 09, 2013, 07:10:59 AM »
Oh Miss T   happy100 ...I am working on my own complete complete rampage of a day.

Lets combine and have a Thelma and Louise version of Natural Born Killers....just for stress relief like  :thumbsup:

 scared2:
Pro Skub  Thumbs:

Offline GROWLER

  • Power Poster
  • *****
  • Posts: 17808
  • Reputation: 0
Re: enough is enough.
« Reply #11 on: June 09, 2013, 07:27:05 AM »
Excellent words from Boogs (apart from her being an old fart bit). I have nothing to add but a big  happy100

Take care Miss T

But she is though!  Thumbs:

Offline Nick

  • Needs to get out more...
  • ******
  • Posts: 109359
  • Reputation: -115
Re: enough is enough.
« Reply #12 on: June 09, 2013, 07:40:18 AM »
There is summat familiar in this. Are yer parents Catholic?  rubschin:
Warning: May contain Skub
Cat sitter extraordinaire
Semi-professional crocodile

Offline boogs

  • Power Poster
  • *****
  • Posts: 11836
  • Reputation: 3
Re: enough is enough.
« Reply #13 on: June 09, 2013, 09:42:46 AM »
Excellent words from Boogs (apart from her being an old fart bit). I have nothing to add but a big  happy100

Take care Miss T

But she is though!  Thumbs:

XXXXX   cloud9:   :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
You only get one chance at this life so make the most of it .

Offline Darwins Selection

  • Power Poster
  • *****
  • Posts: 39138
  • Reputation: 6
  • I mostly despair
Re: enough is enough.
« Reply #14 on: June 10, 2013, 09:38:59 AM »
Poor Misty,  happy100

If you were my little girl, I would be very proud of what you have achieved out there.  :thumbsup:
I mostly despair