I have decided to replace the wall at the front of the property, the current wall wasn't built very well, frost and vandalism(!) have taken it's toll. So I get a couple of local builders in for quotes. Both quotes are similar so I choose the lower, not just for the price but also because he seemed "right"
So I call the other to say "thanks but no thanks" which should be straightforward but of course he immediately drops his price. I still say no but somehow he makes me feel guilty and bullied.
Why should that be so?