Dare I say - as a new member the 'banter' seems too 'in joke' and when you post a reply the in jokes carry on at the newbies expense, you don't know whats going on and some of it is not exactly encouraging.
Agreed! In this pub we mean no offence to anyone new or not, we mostly know each other and know how we will react generally.
It does us good to be reminded that there is a different viewpoint. Keep it up, if we get too cliquicky - remind us, and one day soon someone new will be pointing the finger at you too.