Moral advice required.
Mrs Nick is very absent minded and is forever losing stuff - keys, specs, vital papers. This is daily. Her usual stance is that I have maliciously hidden whatever item it is, since she prefers to balme me than herself. SHe also puts stuff in the oddest places (e.g phone in the fridge). A few years back she had to deliver a
large sum of cash somewhere and decided it would be safest to hide it in her underpants (a reasonable idea IMHO) but forgot she had put it there and managed to flush it all down a toilet when she stopped en route for a pee.
Before we went away in the summer she had withdrawn £500 from the bank to pay a workman. She put it "in a safe place" and promptly forgot where she had put it. She whittled endlessly over the summer and went through periodic bouts of rummaging, but the cash never turned up and I paid the guy myself in the end.
Earlier on, looking for a misplaced key
I experiementally opened up a disused garlic pot and lo and behold £500 in £50 pound notes.
Should I tell her?
