Yes BM is correct - tickets booked to return to UK (leave here Fri 18 Jan) to do some serious duffing up (probably) of said WD lady - although now have booked time to call said WD lady in approximately half hour from now and will see whether or not this can be resolved without need for duffing up skills
Have after many telephone discussions with daughter (who is beautiful and also clever by the way) decided the best plan (as suggested by those of superior intelligence on this forum) to quit the deal and get out as painlessly and (perhaps not) cheaply as possible.
Reason for the return to to do the necessary (on both parts) Mummy/Daughter new 'THE DRESS' wedding dress selection
Anyways will update you all again following the telephone call - who's betting WD lady doesn't answer even though she has promised