Sorry, but you will find it easier once you accept that all actors/actresses:-
1. Bat for the other side some or all of the time.
2. Have an unhealthy interest in people much younger than they are (see also 1. above)
3. Have a problem with drink and/or drugs.
4. Get robbed by their agent/lawyer/parents.
5. Are subjected to press investigations into 1-4 above.