Which is why I will not go near Friends Reunited. If I want to be in touch with someone I already am. If I am not "In touch" it is because I don't bloody want to be.
I started using it when we organised a reunion of our old computer department and it was very useful. I did start to understand just how much you can find out people through the interweb and also how careless people are, about what they put onto sites.
Anyway, off to find TMR now. Will find a suitable card for him.