He is just being a tit in general. I'm not going to my Mum's for Christmas for reasons that she fully understands. He wasn't going to be going either which would have meant she was on her own. He has decided to now sulk with me about it.
Of course the fact that he hasn't been home in nearly a year is a point not worth discussing. He also decided to start sulking with me on the anniversary of my Dad's dying. So despite my leaving messages all Friday, texts, emails, crying on both his home and mob answer machine he has decided not to speak to me.
He finally decided to speak to me on Saturday when I called, to inform me he wasn't ready to discuss the matter and if I continued to try and do so he would hang up on me. I did and he did. So I sent him a text saying if he wished to screw up our relationship then that was up to him, but if he couldn't understand my reasons for not wanting to fly home then I didn't understand how we could move forward. I haven't heard from him since.