Oh I have no intention of saying anything to him!
So, would you consider a man 15 years older?
Well not now that I am happily living in sin no. However, it wasn't something I ever ruled out no. I used to go out with someone ten years older than myself so five years is only a hop skip and a jump from that. My Mum and Dad were 17 years apart.
I have a female friend who is fifteen years younger than her husband, he is 66.
Another female friend is 22 years younger than her husband, he is 60.
That is considered more normal though isn't it? It's a societal norm for the woman to be younger than the man but when it is the other way around it is considered rather peculiar.
I don't know to be honest. A few years difference is the norm.
The first female I mentioned is someone I was involved with many moons ago and I was dubious about her marrying him (only happened 3 years ago) as most of their friends are the same age as him and this obviously makes a big difference to thier social life.
Also he is very insecure about the age difference and her leaving him for someone else - has has effectively banned from seeing me, even when Mrs Tel is present.