Nah ~ she really tries and I know how hard it is to struggle with weight problems.
Do I lie about things?
Not much at all. Sometimes tell the kids some creation or other artistic endeavour of theirs is wonderful whilst thinking "how can I get rid of this crap without them noticing"
Used to lie, more by omission than anything about other wimmin when my now ex was a current wife but then does that really count as lies? I used to think of it as sparing her the anguish ~ commendable really ~ put like that