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Daytime guilt
« on: September 09, 2009, 10:27:27 AM »
I work from home. Sometimes I am frantically bizzy and stay up all night to meet deadlines. At other times I have fook all to do. Between 6 and 10 this morning I have communicated with various clients (one more to go) who all owe me things. I owe nothing except some invoices which I shall do shortly.

After that I can sit here and play about on the VP or just relax in the Rug Room and watch a  crap film. But Mrs Nick is slaving at werk and I feel oddly guilty about doing nothing. Oh yes, I will cook later, and sort out washing.

With werk in hand and werk invoiced for I have enough in the bank to not worry too much till about March 2011 about cashflow and by then something else will turn up. So, should I pretend to werk (pretend to myself that is) or just put my feet up?

I imagine many here (aside from our sadly unemployed brethren - to whom my apologies) may also feel odd about bunking off. What do you do?
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Re: Daytime guilt
« Reply #1 on: September 09, 2009, 10:37:19 AM »
The problem with being in full time employment is not being able to get all the household chores done, everything either has to be packed in the weekend or a day's holiday taken. Example, the boiler is due it's annual service but I haven't been able to take a day off.

Count yourself lucky.

You could always take up a hobby. Cake making and model railways comes to mind.  ;)

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Re: Daytime guilt
« Reply #2 on: September 09, 2009, 10:39:47 AM »
I do no chores till about 4 then it's all systems go. But you are right about routine werkmen and stuff. That is easy.

Oh and
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I may go to Ainsdale and take photographs!
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Re: Daytime guilt
« Reply #3 on: September 09, 2009, 10:45:51 AM »
As you know I pretend to work by being involved in a number of local committees.
Apart from editing and publishing the village magazine (5 days work every other month) I also sit on a couple of fund raising committees, for both I act as Secretary as I am available during the day and have 'pooter etc. I get paid expenses and that takes care of my telephone bills (including broadband). The magazine pays for my 'pooters and printers, ink, paper and stamps etc. I am a Trustee of the charity that runs the village hall and also act as the Board of Trustees Secretary and Treasurer which means one day a month I do their invoices (to people who rent the rooms at the hall for various functions), the banking, pay any bills that come in and keep the books.
I do a little writing and a lot of family history research. I occasionally speak at various venues on the subjects that interest me. The likes of the WI, the Round Table, The RAOB, etc all pay expenses (I charge a flat £25 for 40 minutes and usually get a free lunch or supper)
What with that and my share of the Home Education of the Boys plus playing in here life is pretty full. I sometimes wonder how I found time to go out to work. Seriously I do all this to fill my time as I hated being forced out of work and into an early retirement. The choice was replace work with something else or sit in the chair and wait to die.


A quick edit to add ~ I do see Uncle's problem and that is one big advantage to the whole family and probably my biggest contribution in that I am here to deal with all manner of things that otherwise would have to be crammed into weekends (which nobody wants to do)
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Re: Daytime guilt
« Reply #4 on: September 09, 2009, 10:46:38 AM »
OK. I argued with myself and lost.

Crap film.

I now await the crap film watched in the daytime police  scared2:
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Re: Daytime guilt
« Reply #5 on: September 09, 2009, 11:03:31 AM »
You could spend the afternoon making a home made anniversary card  whistle:
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Re: Daytime guilt
« Reply #6 on: September 09, 2009, 11:10:38 AM »
I succumbed and did online Interflora  evil:
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Re: Daytime guilt
« Reply #7 on: September 09, 2009, 11:12:22 AM »

Good Man   cloud9:

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Re: Daytime guilt
« Reply #8 on: September 09, 2009, 11:15:34 AM »
The problem with being in full time employment is not being able to get all the household chores done, everything either has to be packed in the weekend or a day's holiday taken. Example, the boiler is due it's annual service but I haven't been able to take a day off.

Count yourself lucky.

You could always take up a hobby. Cake making and model railways comes to mind.  ;)

That always used to be a major bug bear - having to take a day's leave to wait for service men ( or women )  or deliveries to fail to turn up.

Having worked 'flexibly' now for over 2 years it is a gosdend. One day a week working from home allows you to do all these little things.

Of course it does depend on you having a frickin internet connection that works  Banghead
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Re: Daytime guilt
« Reply #9 on: September 09, 2009, 11:17:07 AM »
And a willing and flexible Sven  eyes:

Anyhoo. Past noon so -Thunderball  eveilgrin:
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Re: Daytime guilt
« Reply #10 on: September 09, 2009, 11:18:29 AM »
Would that reduce your daytime guilt then Nick - a flexible friend to play with  whistle:
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Re: Daytime guilt
« Reply #11 on: September 09, 2009, 11:18:55 AM »
Sylvia the MILF  eyes:  cloud9:
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Re: Daytime guilt
« Reply #12 on: September 09, 2009, 12:20:06 PM »
I imagine many here (aside from our sadly unemployed brethren - to whom my apologies) may also feel odd about bunking off. What do you do?

In a word, yes. There is ALWAYS something that's needs doing.  Shrugs:
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Re: Daytime guilt
« Reply #13 on: September 09, 2009, 12:25:12 PM »
It's about priorities....if you decide to be good to yourself today then bunk off and enjoy....if you decide to be good to others then knuckle down and start working

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Re: Daytime guilt
« Reply #14 on: September 09, 2009, 12:26:18 PM »
I imagine many here (aside from our sadly unemployed brethren - to whom my apologies) may also feel odd about bunking off. What do you do?

In a word, yes. There is ALWAYS something that's needs doing.  Shrugs:

Quite. But some things can wait  eveilgrin:
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