The all new "Where are you today?" thread

[Nick]

Blood hell!! I expect there will be a court case

And poor The Man and poor you.

Thet seem to have caught it early and that is a good sign. Fingers crossed

xxx

[Miss Demeanour]

All fingers and toes crossed 

But  the surgeon was fairly positive about prospects  - so I shall place my faith in that 

And yes - deffo a court case for The Brat annoyer 

[Uncle Mort]

Crikey!  Sorry to hear about your troubles Miss D ~ fingers crossed  xx

[Nick]

The news about the doc is excellent cos normally they tend towards worst case scenarios.  ANd I had surgery in 2017 and I am still here 

I hope they keep the stalker locked up! What if he turns up where she lives? Restraining Order???

[Miss Demeanour]

Conditions of his bail ...not allowed within her postal area code or  the adjacent ones 

[Steve]

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jarndyce_and_Jarndyce

Although I'm taking the lead for the family I'm only 1/6 of the liability and anyway we will win

Sporadic updates will follow, we think he'll get the pre-action letter Thursday or Friday and at 100 miles range I may feel the shock wave.  Cheeky sod tried to manoeuvre my solicitors into a meeting where we know he was going to ask for all the files there and then.  How sad that their Covid procedures say no.

And we won 

Folded when he read the pre action letter and the threat of costs.  Cost us well under £1k 

But now this means I'm lumbered with administering an estate that is to put it simply, a right mess 

[apc2010]

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jarndyce_and_Jarndyce

Although I'm taking the lead for the family I'm only 1/6 of the liability and anyway we will win

Sporadic updates will follow, we think he'll get the pre-action letter Thursday or Friday and at 100 miles range I may feel the shock wave.  Cheeky sod tried to manoeuvre my solicitors into a meeting where we know he was going to ask for all the files there and then.  How sad that their Covid procedures say no.

And we won 

Folded when he read the pre action letter and the threat of costs.  Cost us well under £1k 

But now this means I'm lumbered with administering an estate that is to put it simply, a right mess 

   I think ....

[Nick]

The VP is turning into a soap opera!!  I am dealing with my sister and all the fallout from everything since Christmas. There could be munny in this!!

[Steve]

Example problem:  what to do with my aunt's wedding ring.  She died in 2004.  Nobody wants to see it sold for the melting pot and nobody wants it.

There is a Mercedes 4x4 but it's 12 years old and nobody wants that either.  We Buy Any Car beckons.

And then there's years of missing tax filings and HMRC have a way of making demands 

[Nick]

Keep the ring
Flog the car
Use proceeds to hire a good accountant 

[Steve]

Keep the ring
Flog the car
Use proceeds to hire a good accountant 

I've just spent 2 days trying to find his existing accountant, and failed.

[Nick]

  

[Just One More]

The last few weeks have been hellish 

The Brat has had some weirdo from Uni harassing her ( up to 40 calls a day ) - so she changed her phone number and then he has been creating all sorts of social media stuff in her name and a lot of other stuff I probably know very little about. This had been going on for some time so she made an online enquiry with the police and the next day they turned up at the door and stayed for over 2 hours whilst they collated the evidence .  Anyways - the bloke has now been arrested and charged - they did a 6am raid on his home where he lives with his mum apparently 

Then The Man also sent off his routine bowel screening test and this came back with concerns. So 2 weeks ago he went in for a Colonoscopy which suggested there was a cancerous tumour ( he had absolutely no symptoms prior to this !! ) . By the Wednesday of this week they had organised an MRI scan. Thursday a CT scan . Friday genetic testing  .
Last Monday we had a virtual consultation that confirmed the fears however the good news is this seems localised to the area  and is deemed very much treatable. An appointment with the surgeon took place last Friday who went through the operation and all things around the treatment plan. Surgery will be taking place within the next 2 weeks.

In this horrible situation  I feel very fortunate on the timing of this  - we had postponed our wedding to July and if all goes well that should still be possible.

Given where the NHS is now in terms of transitioning back to 'normal' services I just don't think this would have been fast tracked the way it has if this was a few months ago . They even organised for him to get his 2nd Covid vaccination yesterday  ( which had been scheduled for the end of April)  to prep for hospital. He is likely to be going to a 'green' covid free hospital which is private but which the NHS are still using at the current time for cancer treatment .

So thankful for the positives in this but my god I need the pub to open 

Bloody hell Miss D. Massive hugs to you, your daughter and your other half 

[Just One More]

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jarndyce_and_Jarndyce

Although I'm taking the lead for the family I'm only 1/6 of the liability and anyway we will win

Sporadic updates will follow, we think he'll get the pre-action letter Thursday or Friday and at 100 miles range I may feel the shock wave.  Cheeky sod tried to manoeuvre my solicitors into a meeting where we know he was going to ask for all the files there and then.  How sad that their Covid procedures say no.

And we won 

Folded when he read the pre action letter and the threat of costs.  Cost us well under £1k 

But now this means I'm lumbered with administering an estate that is to put it simply, a right mess 

 

[apc2010]

Example problem:  what to do with my aunt's wedding ring.  She died in 2004.  Nobody wants to see it sold for the melting pot and nobody wants it.

There is a Mercedes 4x4 but it's 12 years old and nobody wants that either.  We Buy Any Car beckons.

And then there's years of missing tax filings and HMRC have a way of making demands 

G-wagon..??