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Offline GROWLER

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Re: Helpless
« Reply #30 on: February 22, 2010, 01:27:06 PM »
Would it be possible to take your mum to Turkey with you p'raps....when she's a bit fitter and out of hossy like?  rubschin:

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Re: Helpless
« Reply #31 on: February 22, 2010, 01:37:31 PM »
Dunno that I can go to Turkey now ....we shall just have to see
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Re: Helpless
« Reply #32 on: February 22, 2010, 01:41:56 PM »
Dunno that I can go to Turkey now ....we shall just have to see

Later p'raps then?
Hope the news isn't too bad this avvy.

Oh the joys of getting old ey? So much to look forward to...apparently. Shrugs:

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Re: Helpless
« Reply #33 on: February 22, 2010, 02:26:27 PM »
Miss D.
      You don't know me but I did have a Mum once -I do hope that your Mum gets well as soon as possible and that you get to enjoy her company for many years to come.
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Re: Helpless
« Reply #34 on: February 22, 2010, 02:58:26 PM »
Thanks u

Just washing my brothers white string vest so he can go and do a Bruce Willis stylee invasive attack on the hospital and we can find someone who will talk to us  Banghead
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Re: Helpless
« Reply #35 on: February 22, 2010, 03:28:55 PM »
At least it's a weekday. Most of the staff bugger off from friday lunch-time onwards, so on a saturday and sunday, it's just about impossible to find someone who can tell you anything, apart from ringing the ward to get an overnite update.

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Re: Helpless
« Reply #36 on: February 22, 2010, 04:05:05 PM »
Hosps have roolz about what they can and cannot say. Admission to A&E at a weekend is always a bugger. There will have been a "Consultant" on call but the specialists will not have seen Mother until today so no accurate diagnosis will have been attempted. Weekend care is concerned with keeping the patient comfortable and alive until Monday when the real work begins. A list of "possibles" will have been tested for, x-rays, blood tests etc so that when the big man turns up mid morning on Monday he can see the results and order whatever further tests he wants. Results from those will not be available until he does his rounds tomorrow.

Another thing is that unless Mother has told them you are her next of kin they will be very reluctant to tell you much even when they do know something.

Ringing pre 10 am will only ever get you the standard response of "A comfortable night"

Ring during the tea time slot (5 to 6pmish) when all other depts have closed for the night, doctors have completed their rounds, patients will have had their pm checks done and all answers are being readied by Sister for handover to the night shift. That's when you will get answers.
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Re: Helpless
« Reply #37 on: February 23, 2010, 06:48:15 AM »
So sorry to hear all this ...  ((((((( MissD )))))))   Big Aussie hug with lots of life affirming sunshine and best wishes.
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Re: Helpless
« Reply #38 on: February 23, 2010, 08:45:16 AM »
Cheers me dears  cloud9:

Might finally get some info today ....she has been moved to another ward and they have permitted my brother to go and see her this evening and to get to speak to the consultant.

However now she has been moved to another ward not able to speak to her on her mobile... Banghead

I feel exasperated
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Re: Helpless
« Reply #39 on: February 26, 2010, 02:26:34 PM »
Just by way of an update ..it is not good news on my mum.

It is the C word , and would appear to be quite advanced.

Results next week will let us know what can be done and how long we are talking.

As I said earlier this week has been awful
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Re: Helpless
« Reply #40 on: February 26, 2010, 02:53:14 PM »
That's awful ~ so sorry.  happy100
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Re: Helpless
« Reply #41 on: February 26, 2010, 02:54:39 PM »
Thanks Snoops ...right now I am being practical and sensible ...later on I may be emotional  ...or pissed

Forgive my mood swings right now ( more than normal anyways  ;D )
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Re: Helpless
« Reply #42 on: February 26, 2010, 03:02:10 PM »
I'm so sorry to hear the news Miss D, it is awful and there's so little we can do or say.  noooo:

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Re: Helpless
« Reply #43 on: February 26, 2010, 03:06:50 PM »
I know Uncle M - just thought as I started this thread I should update you all and hopefully may go some way to explaining my rantings if they are out of proportion at any time in the future

We shall see what happens - just a bit of a shock and a major reality check this week

thanks tho
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Re: Helpless
« Reply #44 on: February 26, 2010, 08:43:42 PM »
Just by way of an update ..it is not good news on my mum.

It is the C word , and would appear to be quite advanced.

Results next week will let us know what can be done and how long we are talking.

As I said earlier this week has been awful

Oh Hun I am sorry. That's a horrid phone call to get.  happy100