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Offline Snoopy

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Re: Female psychology: help required
« Reply #15 on: May 20, 2011, 12:17:12 PM »
Quote from: Nick on May 20, 2011, 12:12:52 PM
Quote from: Miss Demeanor on May 20, 2011, 12:11:13 PM
No  - you said she thinks it's over ...I said she thinks it will never be over  whistle:

Well she is a Catholic


I had that fact in mind ..... well no divorce means no maintenance  whistle:

Still doesn't mean you have to live with her.
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Re: Female psychology: help required
« Reply #16 on: May 20, 2011, 12:18:27 PM »
Quote from: Snoopy on May 20, 2011, 12:17:12 PM
Quote from: Nick on May 20, 2011, 12:12:52 PM
Quote from: Miss Demeanor on May 20, 2011, 12:11:13 PM
No  - you said she thinks it's over ...I said she thinks it will never be over  whistle:

Well she is a Catholic


I had that fact in mind ..... well no divorce means no maintenance  whistle:

Still doesn't mean you have to live with her.

The envelope also contained a bill, now paid
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Re: Female psychology: help required
« Reply #17 on: May 20, 2011, 12:18:58 PM »
Quote from: Nick on May 20, 2011, 12:18:27 PM
Quote from: Snoopy on May 20, 2011, 12:17:12 PM
Quote from: Nick on May 20, 2011, 12:12:52 PM
Quote from: Miss Demeanor on May 20, 2011, 12:11:13 PM
No  - you said she thinks it's over ...I said she thinks it will never be over  whistle:

Well she is a Catholic


I had that fact in mind ..... well no divorce means no maintenance  whistle:

Still doesn't mean you have to live with her.

The envelope also contained a bill, now paid


Not for the wedding I trust  ;)
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Re: Female psychology: help required
« Reply #18 on: May 20, 2011, 12:22:37 PM »
Do you not think she is feeling a little sad and reflective ?

Given that you and Mrs Nick have extreme difficultly discussing any issues maybe she was just simply trying to say I miss you.

Of course it could be much more sinister and she has had a word with the man upstairs in Cloud Central Station and  he has confirmed he is to  send you to purgatory because of your sins  ::) - but I prefer my option  lol:
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Re: Female psychology: help required
« Reply #19 on: May 20, 2011, 12:24:25 PM »
I think you may be right Miss D
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Re: Female psychology: help required
« Reply #20 on: May 20, 2011, 12:33:26 PM »
Quote from: Miss Demeanor on May 20, 2011, 12:22:37 PM
Do you not think she is feeling a little sad and reflective ?


That sounds familiar.

My ex, who did the leaving, got like that once I had sorted my life out and tried all sorts to get back.
I had agreed the first time and stuck to it for another 5 years but then she ran off anyway. She tried the same routine again but there was no way I was going though it all again. As I recall it went "I'm going" .... then after six months "I'm coming back" .... to which I said "You do and I'm going"  .... then there was a couple of years of using the kids, bills she couldn't or wouldn't pay, love notes reminding me of "Times we had together" interspersed with vitriolic notes about what a b@st@rd I was etc etc.. Finally she sent the kids to live with me as they were getting in the way of her love life and married someone else. Now, 22 years later, we exchange cards at Christmas.
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Re: Female psychology: help required
« Reply #21 on: May 20, 2011, 01:07:38 PM »
Quote from: Nick on May 20, 2011, 12:12:02 PM
[serious] And she promised to look after me in sickness and in health but was nowhere to be seen when I had a nervous breakdown [serious]

That isn't sickness, it's a genetic predisposition.

Does Purgatory have any pubs by the way?
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Re: Female psychology: help required
« Reply #22 on: May 20, 2011, 01:09:45 PM »
Dunno. I recall a lot of praying and masses and stuff after my FiL died. And then they deffo abolished limbo, but not before we had to get some bastard priest in to baptise my dead daughter.

This is getting a bit dark
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Re: Female psychology: help required
« Reply #23 on: May 20, 2011, 01:12:58 PM »
Quote from: Nick on May 20, 2011, 01:09:45 PM
Dunno. I recall a lot of praying and masses and stuff after my FiL died. And then they deffo abolished limbo, but not before we had to get some bastard priest in to baptise my dead daughter.

This is getting a bit dark

As is the way of things with the deeper mind.

Resign yourself to being a loveable clown and ignore it all.

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Re: Female psychology: help required
« Reply #24 on: May 20, 2011, 01:44:43 PM »
Well said, DS.

My father died this morning and I am not in the mood for pseudo religious chicanery and Catholic guilt trips. Best of luck Nick.
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Re: Female psychology: help required
« Reply #25 on: May 20, 2011, 01:47:46 PM »
Quote from: beerhead on May 20, 2011, 01:44:43 PM
Well said, DS.

My father died this morning and I am not in the mood for pseudo religious chicanery and Catholic guilt trips. Best of luck Nick.

Sorry to hear ..........
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Re: Female psychology: help required
« Reply #26 on: May 20, 2011, 01:51:47 PM »
Quote from: beerhead on May 20, 2011, 01:44:43 PM
Well said, DS.

My father died this morning and I am not in the mood for pseudo religious chicanery and Catholic guilt trips. Best of luck Nick.

Oh dear, sorry to hear that  happy100
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Re: Female psychology: help required
« Reply #27 on: May 20, 2011, 02:02:16 PM »
Scattering my mum's ashes tomorrow ...it would have been her birthday.

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Re: Female psychology: help required
« Reply #28 on: May 20, 2011, 02:03:32 PM »
Quote from: beerhead on May 20, 2011, 01:44:43 PM
Well said, DS.

My father died this morning and I am not in the mood for pseudo religious chicanery and Catholic guilt trips. Best of luck Nick.

 happy100

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Re: Female psychology: help required
« Reply #29 on: May 20, 2011, 02:08:20 PM »
Quote from: Miss Demeanor on May 20, 2011, 02:02:16 PM
Scattering my mum's ashes tomorrow ...it would have been her birthday.

 cry:
happy100


My mum wanted her ashes scattered but forgot to say where. We put them under the tree in Bradgate Park where she got pregnant before she got married  redface:
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