Growler, it's not an elitist union nor much fun really tbh. Quite addictive though as once you find a pal you can look at their pals, you quite quickly find that your ex best mate Dave has married your ex missus and has children that are boffing your own.
I have limited what I've put in and gone for a ropey old piccie (non from my ifonlyyouwereasgreatasme.com website). I only posted a piccie to limit those contacting me, otherwise there'll be a list of 500 John Smith's with a big ? instead of a piccie.